First timers!

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First timers!

Postby Sarahnseth2018 » Wed Jun 22, 2022 10:14 am

Hi everyone! We will be at desire RM in October 2022. Any tips or suggestions would be helpful. Does everyone go all out on theme nights? Erotic massage experiences/feedback? And how do the playrooms work with bringing toys? I feel like I have more questions but I’ll start with these lol. I’m excited, anxious, nervous, curious…..all the above lol. Any thoughts or opinions would be great! Desire here we come! ;)
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Re: First timers!

Postby gaviao » Wed Jun 22, 2022 11:00 am

Hi!
Your doubts and questions are too broad. It is very difficult to give an adequate answer; I suggest you go in parts, with more specific questions. Take in mind that, in our case, the first time we went to Desire, not only were we newbies, but the resort was too (it was in the opening week, in May 2003!) Things have evolved and changed since then, but I can tell you that Desire is a great place for any open-minded couple, no matter if they are not into the lifestyle.

Some quick responses in our opinion, that I will expand if you want:

Theme nights: Try to participate every night, remember in clothing issue, less is best.
Erotic massage: It's not worth the price you pay, there are other better options.
Playroom/toys: Playroom is great! We are hardly fond on toys, some people use them and it's not just acceptable, but attractive.

Leave the anxiety in your hometown,
Take advantage of every minute that you will be in Desire, do not waste time.
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Re: First timers!

Postby gaviao » Thu Jun 23, 2022 3:16 pm

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Re: First timers!

Postby dhdez05 » Fri Jul 08, 2022 8:14 pm

We’re newbies to DRM and went to Pearl for the first time last year. We felt all the same emotions as you. Don’t forget to pack plenty of sunscreen. We noticed some people went all out with theme nights, others never participated. I say dress up if you can but don’t stress about it. The nights usually end with you stripping it all off anyway. We didn’t really utilize the playroom much. Most of the action at Pearl centered around the hot tub and the cabanas surrounding it. Excited to see how different this is at DRM.

One thing I wish we would have done last time was interact with others online ahead of the trip. Since it was our first time, we didn’t really know about the forums, We didn’t know anyone and (even though we’re not really introverts) the new experience took us some time to get used to. I felt we struggled a bit to meet people or for others to come talk to us. We’re trying to change that this time around.

Btw, we’re visiting DRM in Oct 2022 as well. Maybe we’ll see each other.
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Re: First timers!

Postby gaviao » Sat Jul 09, 2022 1:50 pm

Excited to see how different this is at DRM.


I think the vibe is much more intense in DRM, compared with Pearl.
People are more participatory and I think there is more erotic activity in public.

We didn’t really utilize the playroom much.


We don't like the Pearl's playroom; DRM's is much bigger and invites to visit it each night, at least for 15 or 20 minutes.
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