Theme night participation?

[kinkykpl]

What percentage would you say actually dress for the theme nights? Do you think the themes for 2026 are difficult ones to dress for?

[SusanAndDavid]

I wouldn't put a % on things, but I would say the majority of folks dress in theme most nights, especially the ladies. Some guys will dress nicely or 'around' theme, but our philosophy is 'why not'? You can't wear these outfits most anywhere else, and literally no one cares what you look like, nor will they remember. What will stand out is you not dressing in theme, standing around not engaging in activities, etc. You don't need anything expensive or extravagant. We both get most of our stuff off Shein / Temu / Amazon, and for the amount of time the clothes (if you can call them that) are on, the cost to amount of time worn ratio is perfect.
As for the theme nights, they're all basically the same each year, just packaged in a different name. You're always going to have a fetish night, a neon night, a lingerie night, a latin night, some form of uniform night, something along the lines of harem, burlesque night and then usually one other. Rule of thumb- if you wear it at home it's too much for Desire. Have fun with it, go with the flow and don't worry if the outfit isn't exactly perfect to the theme- it'll hopefully be on the floor sooner than later anyway.

[AprilDRM]

Hello we are a couple in mid 40s, we have booked our first trip to DRM for early April. We will stay for 3 nights.

We have been reading conflicting reports regarding current and recent rates of nudity at DRM. Could you please clarify if sheer dresses (with or without underwear) are still fine for Dinner; if this is something common, or do you just stand out? Is the majority of women still wearing sheer are revealing dresses at Dinner and are still nude around the pool during the day?

Also anyone knows what is the difference between the "erotic seduction fantasy" (50min) massage and the "sensual delight"(80min)?

Thanks in advance! We'll be staying only for 3 nights, so we'd like to go as prepared as possible.

[ninaandfrank]

We haven’t heard the term sensual delight before. They often change the names of the massages. Best is to ask for details. Nudity around the pool is a topic that comes up quite often. You didn’t say which pool you had in mind, the main pool or the quiet pool. In the main pool you will see most women wearing at least a bikini bottom, if not a full bathing suite. However, in the quiet pool the situation is much different. Most everyone is completely nude. Two different experiences, choose which ever one you like. Dressing sexy in restaurants seems to be a generational thing. Conservative dress seems to be the style for the under 40 crowd. The over 40 crowd seems to prefer more of the revealing attire. Don’t worry about feeling out of place. Wear whatever you have in mind as long as it stays within dress code. Have fun, don’t overthink things.

[AprilDRM]

Thanks for the information. At least a bikini bottom? We had the wrong impression that most people were naked around both pools. Is the quiet pool popular?

Also, we assume that most people are naked at the Hot Tub?

[kbrady]

Quiet pool is less popular but definitely more nude. Eden pool has more swimsuits but no one cares one way or another in my experience. The hot tub in afternoon is more clothed than after disco in which it is pretty much all nude. Don't stress the clothing...just do what you want. Enjoyed walking nude from one end of resort to the other at 10 AM

[sandbetweentoes]

Went in early December, agree with previous responses. Don't worry about it - at the pools/Hot Tub wear what you want/are comfortable with - regular swimsuits, or thong/g-string/sheer, or nothing at all. It's all common and nobody cares. Heck the same goes for Jenny's bar (just put a towel on the chair, please).