by dahender » Wed Jan 18, 2012 6:58 pm
texascpl2 hit the nail on the head... Desire is all about being who you are without apologies. However, anyone at Desire (including myself) who still smokes will generally be as considerate as possible if asked nicely. Doing the fake cough thing, or getting pissy about it will not achieve your desired results - it will only breed contention and a negative reaction. I smoke, and when the wife and I go, I always seek out a place away from the crowd, and near an ashtray (implying a smoking area) instead of just arbitrarily lighting up without "permission". When at the pool, I get up, go over by the entrance to the resturaunts where the ashtrays are, and enjoy my cigarette - then return to my chair by the pool next to my wife. Yes, I smoke on my balcony, but if my "balcony mates" asked me nicely, I would make a point of not smoking when they are outside, or putting it out as soon as they exited their room. I think "nicely" is the operative word....pure and simple.