Witch one choose for swingers DP or DRM?

[Hotlovers]

Hi all, we are canadien swinger couple and we are looking to go to DP or DRM for the first time to a clothing optional resort and was wondering witch one to go to!
First of all we are mid 30's swingers couple ,very funny and social easygoing people. We read a lot about trip report of people and thankx a lot cause that's give us a really good idea of those places . We are more like swingers and party people than nudist people. We find that it is more hot,sexy and attractive to see someone with sexy clothes (sexy dress,topless bikini thong and bare chest man with short or swiming short) than adam and eve suits . We are not very shy poeple and good looking people so we don't mind being naked but it 's not really our thing. Except being naked having sex beside people hihihi . We want to go to desire because we love the vibe that seem to have there and also because of the beautiful scenery out there. We looked at the temtation but don't like the place (scenery).

So with that said, will it be a good choice for us to go to desire resort regardless we're gonna probably wear bottom most of the time?( we will try for sure without bottom lol) And if it's a good choice, witch one should we go to DP or DRM?

Thankx in advance for your answer
Pat and Julie

[northernlightscpl]

Only bring a 'witch' at Halloween.. lol........ however which one you would love to go to, it sounds like you will fit in great into either RM or DP and have a great time. Try them both or split your trip into both resorts.

[Twohere4some]

Hi all, we are canadien swinger couple and we are looking to go to DP or DRM for the first time to a clothing optional resort and was wondering witch one to go to!
First of all we are mid 30's swingers couple ,very funny and social easygoing people. We read a lot about trip report of people and thankx a lot cause that's give us a really good idea of those places . We are more like swingers and party people than nudist people. We find that it is more hot,sexy and attractive to see someone with sexy clothes (sexy dress,topless bikini thong and bare chest man with short or swiming short) than adam and eve suits . We are not very shy poeple and good looking people so we don't mind being naked but it 's not really our thing. Except being naked having sex beside people hihihi . We want to go to desire because we love the vibe that seem to have there and also because of the beautiful scenery out there. We looked at the temtation but don't like the place (scenery).

So with that said, will it be a good choice for us to go to desire resort regardless we're gonna probably wear bottom most of the time?( we will try for sure without bottom lol) And if it's a good choice, witch one should we go to DP or DRM?

Thankx in advance for your answer
Pat and Julie

We had limited experience with public nudity prior to our first trip to DRM last fall but found we quickly became comfortable with it. There were a number of people, mostly women that wore a bottom at least part of the time so what ever you are comfortable with is fine. Was also a lot of sexy dress both women and men for dinner and the parties later in the evening. Agree that sometimes, a little can be more arousing than nothing.

As for which you should choose, know different people will give you different answers. While we have only been to DRM so far (twice now), we talked to many that had been to both. DRM has more rooms than DP but covers a smaller land area. DP is a little more upscale but we enjoyed everything about DRM very much. Both places are very well maintained. Know it can very from week to week or day to day for that mater but have been told by many that there is more night life at DRM. Have also been told that in general, average age can be a little older at DP. During both of our trips to DRM, would put the average age at mid to upper 40's. There were however many above and below this average. Youngest we met were mid 20's, oldest mid 60's. While we do want to visit DP in the near future, our plan is to make it a split trip with 3 or 4 days at each. Because we know we love DRM, our plan is to visit DP first to check it out and finish at DRM which we already know we love!

P.S. If you are anything like the other Canadian couples we have made friends with over the years, you'll enjoy wherever you choose!

[Le Couteau Cache']

Originally, DRM was the resort for hot sexual action, while Pearl seemed to accommodate the more upscale older nudist crowd. Or so this seemed to be the prevailing attitudes. But in our last few trips, splitting our time between the two resorts, it appears to the Mrs and I that couples interested in the lifestyle experience are tending to gravitate a bit more toward Pearl whereas the couples who like to meet their large circle of old friends for great partying and drinking prefer DRM. But I must add, there really isn't that much difference between the two, and both resorts can be hit and miss in regards to PDS. In our last trip, though, (around trip #13 or so), We had never seen DRM so lethargic and non-sexual whereas we had never seen so much sex in the pool and beds in mid-afternoon as we did at DP. So roll your dice, take your chances...and if it seems a bit dead, then it's up to you and your SO to get the place rocking. There does exist a domino effect.

[edunlla]

We also appreciate your experiences of visiting both places. We have been to RM once in January of 15 and will be returning again in Jan of 16, but this year we are also going to have a few days at Pearl also to check the atmosphere there.
One observation that we made on our first RM trip was that there was a little too much clothing around the pool area and even for the hot tub. The two of us are avid nudists and hoping to become a lifestyle couple also. Trip 1 to RM could probably be classified as a scouting trip for us. There were a couple offers thrown our way at the hot tub but we declined any play at that point in our life. Now with gaining the confidence to take it a step further we look forward to the return. It will be interesting to see which resort will get our virginity (so to speak)

[Bestfriends]

We have been to DRM 15 times and tried DP last year to check it out. In short, DRM is more of an interactive swinger resort. DP is more of a nudist - or want to be seen but not touched resort. Both are great fun. Were looking forward to getting back to DRM next week!!

[danbo]

Bestfriends, what a load of bull.

[canadiantakeover]

Hi all, we are canadien swinger couple and we are looking to go to DP or DRM for the first time to a clothing optional resort and was wondering witch one to go to!

We met a half-dozen French couples at DRM in January who were eager to converse in my broken French. (It's "Je suis un pamplemousse!" bad these days). Also a tall, short-haired, commanding French woman was her first FF experience

No shortage of people across the lifestyle spectrum at either. DP sounds great too, but we've only been to DRM so far.

[ksr]

We made a trip to Pearl in June and RM in Aug. Each trip was 4 nights long. Keeping in mind that 4 nights is about 1% of the year, we loved both locations and found the people great to spend time with. Pearl seemed a bit older and some people kept to themselves a bit more than at RM. LS was active at both locations and about the same degree at both as far as I could tell. We made considerably more friends at RM, but that may have been influenced by our Pearl visit being our first C/O resort. We were much more relaxed and comfortable our second time at RM. Looks like our 3rd trip will be RM, but we almost booked Pearl. There is a uniqueness about each location that seems to balance the scale. Good luck.

[texascouple_sdc]

We have yet to experience Desire Pearl. So, our "experience" is with DRM. First off, we have been in the swing scene for almost 15 years. Each time we go to DRM, we always find ourselves having fun and making new friends. What does that really mean? We enjoy each new friendship that we make while we are there. Some friends are lunch / dinner buddies.. some are healthy flirting buddies and some are sexual partners / new experiences for us. For us, it's all about getting out of your shell. Be visible.. be kind.. be yourselves and have fun. Everyone who goes to Desire (either location) pretty much knows the basics and potential for meeting new sexual partners. We think Desire is more of what you make of it, regardless of location. Personally, we LOVE DRM. Over the past 4 years, we've made some wonderful friends at DRM. Healthy mind + healthy body + healthy sex appeal / appetite = healthy adult fun!