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We are a couple in early to mid 60s. We have been together for 40+ years, are still in love, very dedicated to “us”, and still very attracted to each other. We are very social and engaging, and LOVE interacting with others. Of course, we sport all the signs of our age: gray/white hair, a few extra pounds, some sags and rolls, and the need for a little extra help from muscle toning, Cialis, and a tummy tuck. That said, we are comfortable in our skins and love being sensual/erotic. We are planning our virgin trip to DRM, which we are excitedly looking forward to. We have noticed that the median age of attendees is 40-50, with only a handful 60+.

So our question is: will anyone be interested in “playing” with us given our age and deportment? We would not be disappointed if our “play” (soft, full, etc) was limited to just us; but we are also curious about and very open to new experiences. We want to make sure that we have sensible expectations going into this and are not setting ourselves up for the disappointment of rejection.

If you answer, please be honest, whether positive or negative. We are really fine with that. As I said, we are happy to just enjoy the vibe and each other, if that is likely what we will be limited to. And when you answer, please no conclusory marketing lines like “just get naked and enjoy”; rather, specific info, experiences, and real examples would be most helpful.

Thanks!

You’ll be fine, and find what you’re looking for if you seek it out :-)
Keep in mind median means “the middle” so just one couple can be the median of 45. The “average” age is a COMPLETELY different thing. In our experience (six visits) the average age is WAAAAAY closer to seventy than it is to 40. And if you’re in doubt, book during the Y-NOTS/Hot Tamales trip. We went with them on our first trip and we’re easily the youngest couple at 35 and 45
Have Fun!

Hi, we are a latinamerican couple, we have been twice in DRM, we are not swinger, so we can't tell you about us, but we can tell you that we saw there.

If you want to speak, playing, having sex, DRM is the better place, your age is not important, really, that not words.

We just are learning to speak english, and we had nice conversations with other people from Canada and US.

Also, we saw people like you having sex each other and with other people. Really, don't worry, just relax and leave your senses enjoy it.

I hope you understand me.

We are in the upper end of the age bracket and in out trips to Desire never found age to be a problem as we have never ben asked out age. We are far from looking like the models that you see in the pictures. Nature has been with us and aged us, such as the males chest slipping down to become a beer belly,, a women's once perky breast becoming less firm and other examples of ageing. The only thing that gets better with age is fine wine. With our last 3 trips we didn't really look for playing we just enjoyed the people that were there and the shows that they put on around the spa. Its not that we didn't have the change but just wasn't interested with the other couples that wanted to play with us. So if you are turned down by another couple don't take in a bad way, just looked at your SO and say to each other " To bad its their loss." as they don't know what they will be missing and move on having the time of your life at the best place for adults. DESIRE RESORT
Don't know if this answers your questions but it is our feeling about going to a Desire. As many others on here have said "just go with an open mind and enjoy the resort to max.

jmc1982 …………… I have sent you a private message.

Also, like everything else at Desire, it depends on the crowd. Sometimes people are more active than others so it depends on who you will find when you visit. For this reason, the best approach is to go without an agenda and ready to enjoy the nicest place on earth You might be lucky and find what you want, but if that doesn't happen, like in the video games, try again next time

Two of the hottest, most sexual, sensual women I met at Desire were in their mid sixties. I (and everyone else there) would have had sex with either one in a second. It gives me hope for the future. Great thing about Desire...age really doesn't matter.

Some years ago, one of our kids made the comment that sex after 40 was just. . . . . gross. (Ya know how kids think.) Since I could truly say that I resemble that statement, I basically just said that while sex after 40 may not be what it was at 20 or 30, since we (Mom & I) no longer have those as options, we're not just settling for sex after 40, we're going all in for it!

I'm guessing the same could be said for sex after 60. (I hope so!)

Thanks, all, for the thoughtful responses. Very helpful.

My wife is 30 and we had plenty of fun with other of all ages and sizes (you can PM me for more details)

mrandmrsc wrote:My wife is 30 and we had plenty of fun with other of all ages and sizes (you can PM me for more details)

I can see why

RJOC wrote:

mrandmrsc wrote:My wife is 30 and we had plenty of fun with other of all ages and sizes (you can PM me for more details)

I can see why

Haha! Thanks

We don't discriminate by age. If the chemistry is there then we are interested. We've had sex with couples in their 60s and in their 20s. We prefer older couples around our ages (early 50s). PM us if you want details. Thank you.