mo couple wrote: My wife is pretty open minded and does like to cut loose at times. Thanks
If, as you say she is really open minded, then yes Desire would be a great place for that first topless experience. People are extremely friendly, you'll be talking to a bunch of naked people in no time, and most people find that after the first hour or so taking off the clothes seems like the most natural thing in the world.
But, just make sure she is really as open minded as you think, and that she knows what goes on at Desire. Besides naked people you may see public displays of sex and a lot of sexual play between people who aren't necessarily couples. If she isn't comfortable with that possibility (seeing it- not participating) then Desire may not be the best choice.