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My wife and I just officially decided on a trip to RM in August. I’ve been reading tons of posts on the erotic massage thanks to the search bar. One thing I’ve noticed is none are recent - very little in the last two years. So anyone who’s had one somewhat recently hopefully can answer some questions for us.

We are going to do the erotic massage, but we (mostly she) wants to know what to expect.

Is there still some sort of form to indicate areas you don’t want touched? I’m hoping it’s a picture and doesn’t list actual body parts here.

I like the idea of just watching her with 4 hands but also don’t want to miss out. Anyone have a suggestion as to how I could watch her but still be massaged some myself? Some sort of compromise.

I’m assuming penetration is still part of the massage for her? Has anyone had anal penetration/play somewhat recently?

I think I could guess the answer to this, but has anyone ever videoed the massage before?

Thanks in advance! Looking forward to a fun time in August.

we did the erotic massage just in November of 2019. So 4 months ago. Yes, there was a diagram or sketch of a body and instructions to mark any areas you wanted special attention to. We did not see the opposite, mark areas you wanted off limits. Our instructions said to mark areas where you WANTED special attention. I marked the penis and ass for special attention. My wife marked "all areas please". Yes, there is penetration. My masseuse penetrated my ass with a finger and her masseuse penetrated her vagina. We asked about taping the massage and were told it is not allowed. Also, it has been stated that a man can get the erotic massage alone without his partner. If you ask for the erotic massage alone, the clerk at the check in table will say it is not allowed. If you simply sign up for the regular massage alone as a single male, maybe you can turn it into an erotic once on the table. But their official policy is both partners must be present for an erotic massage. I have a very detailed review of our massage if you PM me I will send it to you.

cray4132 wrote:I’m assuming penetration is still part of the massage for her? Has anyone had anal penetration/play somewhat recently.

I probably should have specified anal penetration/play for the female half.

bmerryman wrote:we did the erotic massage just in November of 2019. So 4 months ago. Yes, there was a diagram or sketch of a body and instructions to mark any areas you wanted special attention to. We did not see the opposite, mark areas you wanted off limits. Our instructions said to mark areas where you WANTED special attention. I marked the penis and ass for special attention. My wife marked "all areas please". Yes, there is penetration. My masseuse penetrated my ass with a finger and her masseuse penetrated her vagina. We asked about taping the massage and were told it is not allowed. Also, it has been stated that a man can get the erotic massage alone without his partner. If you ask for the erotic massage alone, the clerk at the check in table will say it is not allowed. If you simply sign up for the regular massage alone as a single male, maybe you can turn it into an erotic once on the table. But their official policy is both partners must be present for an erotic massage. I have a very detailed review of our massage if you PM me I will send it to you.

PM sent! Thank you for the information.

bmerryman wrote:we did the erotic massage just in November of 2019. So 4 months ago. Yes, there was a diagram or sketch of a body and instructions to mark any areas you wanted special attention to. We did not see the opposite, mark areas you wanted off limits. Our instructions said to mark areas where you WANTED special attention. I marked the penis and ass for special attention. My wife marked "all areas please". Yes, there is penetration. My masseuse penetrated my ass with a finger and her masseuse penetrated her vagina. We asked about taping the massage and were told it is not allowed. Also, it has been stated that a man can get the erotic massage alone without his partner. If you ask for the erotic massage alone, the clerk at the check in table will say it is not allowed. If you simply sign up for the regular massage alone as a single male, maybe you can turn it into an erotic once on the table. But their official policy is both partners must be present for an erotic massage. I have a very detailed review of our massage if you PM me I will send it to you.

Would you mind sharing with us your detailed review, if I PM you?

Txcuriouscouple wrote:

bmerryman wrote:we did the erotic massage just in November of 2019. So 4 months ago. Yes, there was a diagram or sketch of a body and instructions to mark any areas you wanted special attention to. We did not see the opposite, mark areas you wanted off limits. Our instructions said to mark areas where you WANTED special attention. I marked the penis and ass for special attention. My wife marked "all areas please". Yes, there is penetration. My masseuse penetrated my ass with a finger and her masseuse penetrated her vagina. We asked about taping the massage and were told it is not allowed. Also, it has been stated that a man can get the erotic massage alone without his partner. If you ask for the erotic massage alone, the clerk at the check in table will say it is not allowed. If you simply sign up for the regular massage alone as a single male, maybe you can turn it into an erotic once on the table. But their official policy is both partners must be present for an erotic massage. I have a very detailed review of our massage if you PM me I will send it to you.

Would you mind sharing with us your detailed review, if I PM you?

We also would like the details. We have a few ideas of our own we would like to explore in this venue. Thanks G & C

Why not post the detailed review? Seems like people want to hear it.

We did it early March. It was fun but probably wouldn’t do it again. Also we didn’t know that they start with a 25 minute jacuzzi session for just the wife and I. After that we went to the room with the masseuses.