by mfay » Wed Aug 27, 2008 6:49 am
First of all you are far from the first person to ask the question. Its been
asked many times almost since Desire began.
The answer starts with what not to do. Don't try to hide anything about Desire from your wife. Show her this forum and other sites concerning Desire such as the Desire couples yahoo group and Dennyp's so she can read the trip reports and the discussions. Desire "surprises" have ruined many vacations.
Hopefully from reading about Desire your wife will begin to understand what Desire is really all about. Sometimes the forum and other sites get bogged down in discussions about facilities, food, entertainment, etc. While those things are part of the experience at Desire, they aren't really what makes Desire what it is to the many who love her so much.
Desire is about renewal, restoration of the spirit, and discovering a way
to bring down all those barriers that every day life builds up. Its being free to let down your guard and do what feels good- to you, today- without worrying about how it "looks" or what people think. If you feel like being a little overly affectionate in public (and you probably will) you can do that without guilt. You can make a fool of yourself and not feel out of place as everyone laughs with you. Whether you are a lifestyle couple looking
to enjoy a sexually charged atmosphere or simply a couple hoping to rekindle the flames of passion between yourselves Desire provides the opportunities and atmosphere to make it easy.
No one cares if you are young, old, flat, round, wealthy, or economically challenged. People from every walk of life become all the same.
It truly is the most "liberating" vacation experience you and your wife will ever have !
So to the Mrs.: give the place a try- you'll never be sorry you did.
Mike