How do you get the wife to go?!

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How do you get the wife to go?!

Postby cozumelcrazy » Tue Aug 26, 2008 10:31 pm

I would love to give Desire a try but the wife is very hesitant. This would be our first adult only AI not to mention the first clothing optional. She always loosens up when we arrive in mexico just can't get her to commit to this!
Any suggestions?
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Postby mfay » Wed Aug 27, 2008 6:49 am

First of all you are far from the first person to ask the question. Its been
asked many times almost since Desire began.
The answer starts with what not to do. Don't try to hide anything about Desire from your wife. Show her this forum and other sites concerning Desire such as the Desire couples yahoo group and Dennyp's so she can read the trip reports and the discussions. Desire "surprises" have ruined many vacations.
Hopefully from reading about Desire your wife will begin to understand what Desire is really all about. Sometimes the forum and other sites get bogged down in discussions about facilities, food, entertainment, etc. While those things are part of the experience at Desire, they aren't really what makes Desire what it is to the many who love her so much.
Desire is about renewal, restoration of the spirit, and discovering a way
to bring down all those barriers that every day life builds up. Its being free to let down your guard and do what feels good- to you, today- without worrying about how it "looks" or what people think. If you feel like being a little overly affectionate in public (and you probably will) you can do that without guilt. You can make a fool of yourself and not feel out of place as everyone laughs with you. Whether you are a lifestyle couple looking
to enjoy a sexually charged atmosphere or simply a couple hoping to rekindle the flames of passion between yourselves Desire provides the opportunities and atmosphere to make it easy.
No one cares if you are young, old, flat, round, wealthy, or economically challenged. People from every walk of life become all the same.
It truly is the most "liberating" vacation experience you and your wife will ever have !
So to the Mrs.: give the place a try- you'll never be sorry you did.
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Postby Denver Duo » Wed Aug 27, 2008 10:03 am

Well stated Mike and Barbara! We agree. Our suggestion would be to approach the vacation as a romantic getaway. No kids, no singles! All inclusive means no worries for the most part. Just have to decide when to get up, what to drink, and how much sun screen to apply. The resort is not a place where anything is demanded, or even expected for that matter. Just go, relax, and do what you two feel comfortable doing, or not!

There are many positives about the resort but the two that stick out for us are the people you meet and the beach beds to chill out on. This is not a 1000 room mega resort where you have the traffic of a major city. It is a quiet, small resort where you may get to know some of the guests who are there when you are. It is secluded so if you feel like losing the bathing suits (oh what a great feeling!) then you can do so without massive crowds around to worry about. It's more like being at a backyard pool where no one knows you and no one cares.

And one last comment. Be aware that your romantic connection as a couple can go through the roof after a visit to Desire. Many couples have found this getaway far better than their honeymoon!
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Postby JCnBadboy » Wed Aug 27, 2008 10:18 am

Very well said.
Its true, be honest. Show her the website, get her to be part of this forum. She dosnt HAVE to be naked....Our first visit, we only stayed one night...it would have been 2 but there was no room at the Inn....But the one night, wow! It sure left us wanting more! Desire opens up a whole different area of your relationship. Its very nice. Very. The resort is so laid back and free, that you really hate leaving. We hope that you both go and have the time of your life.
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Postby seisdnueve » Thu Aug 28, 2008 12:14 am

"A luxury once tasted becomes a necessity".
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