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We are first timers, 30 and 34 year olds. Our trip is booked for RM for late August . It's a short trip so we are looking to make the most of it.

We are not in the lifestyle but are looking forward to doing the deed in public spaces, where we can be seen.

From what I heard sex is allowed in the jacuzzi and in the sin room. We have looked at the pictures, and are a little apprehensive about having sex in the jacuzzi, but we were wondering,

1. Is sex allowed around the beds in the jacuzzi area? If it is, around what time is it the most active?

2. When should we go to the sin room for the most activity?

3. Is sex allowed in the beds near the pool?

4. Is sex allowed in the beds facing the beach?

5. Can we keep our room doors open?

Thanks, we can't wait for our trip!

First of all Welcome! You should love it there. WARNING - Desire is addictive! At least it is for us. It sounds like your kind of place. Here are you answers....
1. Yes, one of the best places to have sex! The two most active times are in the late afternoon/evening before getting ready for dinner and late night after the disco. Foreplay often starts in the jacuzzi, but then most people move to the beds to finish. (It is also considered bad etiquette to place your belongings on a Jacuzzi bed to "reserve" it. They have little storage cubbies to put your stuff in. There are only 5 beds up there.
2. During "Disco Time", the time varies by night and by the crowd there, but usually around 1 am is the peak time in the playroom
3. Sex in the pool beds does occur, but is usually done discretely. It is not officially allowed.
4. Yes, and many take advantage of these during the morning or early afternoon. It's great!
5. Yes, several people do that or leave the window shades open with the door closed.

Enjoy! You will only have 1 first trip. We will be celebrating our 36th trip next week! Cheers!

-Tim and Andrea

I thought an open door was an invitation? If so, that might not be what the OP had in mind. Or maybe it was ...

Just to clarify - I would probably recommend against having sex/intercourse IN the jacuzzi itself. Sex on the beds around the jacuzzi is encouraged. As CaveCouple suggested, feel free to start your foreplay in the jacuzzi, though.

1. Perfectly answer from Cavecouple, but a little precision: there are 8 beds up there: 3 right in front of the bar and 5 more in the bottom.
2. Some days activity in the playroom starts earlier. It's a good option to check often; the funniest and most exciting thing is been there when there are at least 5 more couples.
3. Usually not. But in January (when we stayed last time) it was allowed, because of International Swingers Month. I understand in August they are permisive too, because the special month, although I'm not sure.
4. Agree with Cavecouple.
5. Yes, some people leave doors open, and many leave courtanis open, not just for being seen during sex, but along the whole day.
In November, we had a room on the second floor and took advantage of the very spacious terrace; good place for see and being seen.

gaviao wrote:1. Perfectly answer from Cavecouple, but a little precision: there are 8 beds up there: 3 right in front of the bar and 5 more in the bottom.
2. Some days activity in the playroom starts earlier. It's a good option to check often; the funniest and most exciting thing is been there when there are at least 5 more couples.
3. Usually not. But in January (when we stayed last time) it was allowed, because of International Swingers Month. I understand in August they are permisive too, because the special month, although I'm not sure.
4. Agree with Cavecouple.
5. Yes, some people leave doors open, and many leave courtanis open, not just for being seen during sex, but along the whole day.
In November, we had a room on the second floor and took advantage of the very spacious terrace; good place for see and being seen.

Thanks for the more detailed clarifications. We forgot about the 3 beds up top at the jacuzzi. We have never used those. Maybe this will be a challenge for our next trip!

Also, we usually don't go in January or August, but we have had friends go that concur about the sex around the pool being allowed.

Thanks guys this was really helpful.