by Nwvanillatanda » Fri Nov 26, 2021 3:29 pm
My wife and I are not LS but did visit DRM in October for the first time and had similar thoughts as you. It was just a tip-toe 2 night stay tagged onto the end of a "normal" vacation to be in a sexy environment. We had an absolute blast! We met some really fun people. In the jacuzzi area we got a little frisky with each other but weren't exactly ready to put on a show in front of everyone -- it was, however, amazing to be a voyeur up there. Maybe it was being there for just 2 nights wasn't long enough to click with another couple, but we would have been open to do what you listed above (though not in our own room -- maybe in the other couples or somewhere else). We did notice that most of the other couples we had a great time getting to know already knew each other (in sets of 2 or 3 couples) and it seemed like they were most interested in having fun with each other.
Now -- being new to everything, it could have been how we talked about ourselves or why we were at Desire, or our hesitancy to just say "hey -- would you want to XYZ to one of the other couples, but we were left with the idea that trying to connect with others ahead of time would have been helpful.
We did have so much fun that we are going to a lifestyle club for a holiday party this year, and just booked a 4 day trip to Desire in August 1-5 2022. (I logged on today to post our trip to the month-of-the year visits and Aug 2022 is not open yet)
DRM Oct 2021, Aug 2022