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My wife and I are close to planning a trip to the beautiful Desire Riveara Maya Resort. I'll start by clarification on what side of the monogamous/lifestyle friendly fence we're in, we're in a Monogamous relationship but both very much excited about the atmosphere and energy a Desire resort offers.

While chatting about the upcoming trip, we were discussing different scenarios we'd be open with. We both thought it would be extremely sexy to find another couple that we clicked with that would be open to a little fun in the same room. Not swinging but just the excitement of us having sex with another couple doing the same sounds hot af!!!

Rooftop hot tub surrounded by canopy beds for sexy under the stars is a great place for so many different scenarios. No need to host in your room if that’s a barrier for some folks to join you. Just grab 2 canopy beds beside each other or share
1 bed with 2 couples
Have a great nakation

Definitely understand the atmosphere around the jacuzzi can get sexually charged for sure. But something about a more intimate and private scenario was what we were thinking. Don't get me wrong we'll definitely be looking for opportunities around the jacuzzi as well!

We aren’t a swap couple but we love being exhibitionist and being intimate anywhere we’re allowed on property. We’ve found multiple couples to do exactly what you’ve laid out. Just be clear in chatting about wants / limits and have fun!

If you are looking for a more intimate scenario with another couple, maybe the beach beds at night are an option. My wife and I have used those beds at least one night in every single trip to DRM.

We hope that you will have an incredible trip to DRM. There will be plenty of opportunities to live out your fantasies. In addition to the hot tub, there is the dance floor in the disco and the playroom. Our first forays into the lifestyle were at Desire Pearl and DRM. We did not swap on either of our first two trips. But we did discover our exhibitionist nature. Having a group of people watch you have sex with your spouse is intoxicating. You will find the bigger audiences in the afternoon/evening as opposed to late at night. Later in the night, folks will be engaged in their own activities and will be less inclined to watch.

You will find the bigger audiences in the afternoon/evening as opposed to late at night. Later in the night, folks will be engaged in their own activities and will be less inclined to watch.

A good way to start into sex in front of others is being at the jacuzzi or playroom watching a couple while they are having sex, enjoying the show and starting with some caresses, kisses, fondling, etcetera. Probably the first time she wouldn't go further, but who knows the next?

Sounds like a scenario we would love to particpate in, to bad we are not there at the same time.

Thanks everyone! I'm damn excited to visit and put on a show for everyone! Hopefully we can fulfill this fantasy while we're at it

We will be there the same time next year for my wife's birthday. What you describe has always been one of our fantasies too. Maybe we'll have a chance to meet you.

Thats a huge enjoyment of Cyndy and I. we have two upcoming trips and would love to experience it.

My wife and I are not LS but did visit DRM in October for the first time and had similar thoughts as you. It was just a tip-toe 2 night stay tagged onto the end of a "normal" vacation to be in a sexy environment. We had an absolute blast! We met some really fun people. In the jacuzzi area we got a little frisky with each other but weren't exactly ready to put on a show in front of everyone -- it was, however, amazing to be a voyeur up there. Maybe it was being there for just 2 nights wasn't long enough to click with another couple, but we would have been open to do what you listed above (though not in our own room -- maybe in the other couples or somewhere else). We did notice that most of the other couples we had a great time getting to know already knew each other (in sets of 2 or 3 couples) and it seemed like they were most interested in having fun with each other.

Now -- being new to everything, it could have been how we talked about ourselves or why we were at Desire, or our hesitancy to just say "hey -- would you want to XYZ to one of the other couples, but we were left with the idea that trying to connect with others ahead of time would have been helpful.

We did have so much fun that we are going to a lifestyle club for a holiday party this year, and just booked a 4 day trip to Desire in August 1-5 2022. (I logged on today to post our trip to the month-of-the year visits and Aug 2022 is not open yet)