by Cheers2US » Tue Jul 05, 2022 5:08 pm
Hi,
Desire is not technically a lifestyle resort. It is more a lifestyle-friendly resort. This means there will probably be guests there who are IN the lifestyle (as in swingers/swappers) and others who are merely comfortable in the lifestyle atmosphere, folks who might like to watch or be watched, or flirt heavily and engage in sexy activity.
If you want to swing/swap, have an orgy, that's fine. If you want to stay solely with your partner and no one else is allowed in your circle, that's fine too. And everything else in between is totally fine. Nobody will force you to do anything you don't want to to do. Everyone is welcoming.
I think you both will have a great time. Just be open and honest with each other, keep an open mind, allow each other and yourselves to make mistakes but be forgiving about it.
Cheers,
Mrs. C
PS - if you are wondering, my husband and I still consider ourselves pretty vanilla, despite about 8 trips to Desire. We do love the atmosphere and we are comfortable being around others when we play.
A mix of nervousness + excitement