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Disclaimer: Brand Newbies. Zero experience. But we're going to Desire RM for the first time and it's the Erotic Massage that started it all. We definitely share a desire for this experience and maybe more, but again, this is a first! So, it's a pretty big deal to us that we get it right! I've not seen any comments on the massaueses. Good, bad or indifferent? We'd love to hear about your experience. And definitely if you have any specific masseuse recommendations. Thank you!

If you use the forums search engine (upper right of every page you will find lots on that subject search.php?keywords=Erotic+Massage

Yes. There are plenty. Unfortunately, most are outdated and I'm specifically hoping for masseuse recommendations, if there are any.

There is an "updated" post on this in "general info about both resorts". Part way down "erotic massage anyone?". We contributed to it as we were just there. We have been going since 2017 (25+ times) and the erotic massage is not that anymore, it is now a sensual massage.....we all explained it there on that thread. That and the stripper experience has changed with new management we were told by our butler. The management hired a "dance" company and all they do is take their tops off male and female "strippers" and then the rest is not what it used to be. Complain to management if you would like the erotic massage and the actual stripper experience back. Apparently there were some newbies that complained on Travelocity and ruined some of the privet parts of the Desire experience.......

It’s not an erotic massage.

We were there 6/4-6/11.
Crazy expensive vs the experience. It’s barely a sensual experience.

Uh oh. That doesn't sound like a positive exciting review at all! Disappointing. Thank you for sharing though.

I was looking into it too and I read a comment that said "I'd rather get a massage from one of the other guests." :-)

We were given one for doing the presentation. Thank god we didn't have to pay for it, it's not worth what they charge in our opinion. Find a friend or two and give one to each other.

I really liked the idea of it; I know you can do a massage with another couple but the massage experience included the steam room/sauna/jacuzzi + sparkling wine etc. For a first timer it was a nice experience; albeit could've definitely been better had we been more vocal in the choice of who was doing the massage + what we wanted to happen during the massage.

If the massage is no longer erotic it is not worth the $500USD or whatever it costs these days. We did the presentation, we lost an hour of vacation but we scheduled in the morning before anything was really happening

My wife and I participated in the erotic massage in June of this year(2023). We can confirm it is very erotic. It involved lots of touching and even more. DM me if you would like to know more.

We are newbies as well. So it was a great "safe" way to play with others and the entire experience was focused on the two of us. It opened a door for us and was one of our main highlights from our stay.

Our final takeaway is, if you are new to the lifestyle and want to dip your toes in. This is a great way to do it! If you are experienced in the lifestyle it will probably be better to find another couple willing to exchange massages and then some.

Should we book before arrival or when you get there if wanting to experience this? or is the photo shoot better then the Massage if unable to do both?

No need to book it before you get there. Once you are there you can book any of the extra-cost items. Massage vs Photo shoot is purely what you are in the nood for.

adj12321 wrote:Should we book before arrival or when you get there if wanting to experience this? or is the photo shoot better then the Massage if unable to do both?

You're good to wait. We booked ahead of time our last visit and it was totally unnecessary.

We have done the erotic massage a few times, each was a great experience and different masseuses each time. keep in mind the erotic massage is not a true massage. It is more of a light rub down with oil everywhere and I mean everywhere. Once both are “ready” they either move one to the other or push tables together. We have also done the bondage one as well. Not our favorite, way too expensive for what it was.

Never had the massage but the photo shoot was amazing.