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Last time we were at DRM, the quiet pool was quiet and the pool next to the Eden was packed. In the middle between the two pools, where the old lobby was, it was more like a dead zone. It’s near the coffee bar. There’s like no action over there. Then one night when the Mrs and I were walking from the Eden to the old side for dinner, a couple was having fun on one of the beds. They didn’t mind people watching and enjoyed putting on a show. It reminded my wife and I of the time we were in Amsterdam and went to a “show” in the red light district. Given the rules, didn’t know if this was allowed but they didn’t care. It was a crazy experience to see but now I’m curious about trying it out in a few weeks if the Mrs let.
What are the craziest places you’ve seen or had fun at DRM?

When we were there this past labor day we had much fun on the beds around the quiet pool. Only once did any other guest complain.Search this topic…

What was the reason for complaint? Just that y’all were havin a good time where ur not technically allowed to have a good time? Seems a bit crazy to complain about people gettin their groove on at a place like this regardless.

Same here. Who would complain and why? That’s crazy. Part of the beauty is the freedom to just be and enjoy one another. I totally would not be upset at all if I saw any action going on because it helps the vibe. But I love being naked and seen, so maybe it’s just me. Really curious about how far you can push the boundaries. Again, I can’t forget that couple having fun on one of the beds in the old area near the coffee station. It was hot. Would love to do that but would hate to be interrupted by management - that would be a major mood killer if you know what I mean.

Anyone else???

Yes, Nina was going down on me on one of the bbeds at the quiet pool. One lady complained about it to the bartender. Judging by the bartender's reaction; he thought she was nuts.

ninaandfrank wrote:Yes, Nina was going down on me on one of the bbeds at the quiet pool. One lady complained about it to the bartender. Judging by the bartender's reaction; he thought she was nuts.

Holy cats, that's crazy. Someone complaining about a BJ at a lifestyle resort. I've heard it all now.

Maybe instead of complaining, she should try joining your wife.

That’s crazy. Is there anything wrong with going to a lifestyle place and enjoying yourselves? Why would anyone complain?

I was thinking, any issue having fun at the far side of the new pool at night? It’s open but away from most activity. Jacuzzi is too intimidating to the Mrs. Looking for fun options to present when we go

Wife and I are loving every minute of DRM. Thank you to a previous post on another posting by a wife who gave a female perspective. It really hit home and allowed me to be introspective and realized it’s not all about me and it’s about us. It really opened up genuine communication between the two of us while we were here about what we want and were on the same page. So thank you for the female voice. It really enhanced our experience.

Have a little time to reflect as I look out to the ocean getting ready for breakfast.

With that said, fooling around at the far side of the new pool was great. Able to hear the water in the background and be near people as the sun set. And then later we hit the disco for some dancing. Really nice to see the two of us one up and just be. We had fun on the dance floor. Loved the white panties and white slip dress. Got us so worked up, we dropped our inhibitions and went to relax in the jacuzzi area … we both felt so free and uninhibited … amazing. We felt like we were giving a class on love making. Best sex ever!!!

1) going to jacuzzi after leaving disco, slowly stripping naked for all to see as we made out and had fun!
2) having sex in another couples room as the other wife filmed me and my wife and her husband was not allowed in; and vice versa. Super super hot!!!

definately on the beds next to the Hot tub, usually after lunch we slip up there and have a session as the wife is at her horniest then Then at night we always end up in the playroom either alone or with company, or if its warm then back on the beds putting on a show. Nothing like having sex when there are people milling around or watching

Agreed. So true!

Dinner at the upstairs Mexican fusion restaurant. Just playing around, I reached across the table during drinks and slipped my hand down her top for a love ya squeeze and little nip tweak. She blushed and I was surprised to see how much she liked it. After dinner we causally walk out to the bar area near the jacuzzi. I yank her over to me, we kiss passionately, I turn her around, pull down her panties to her knees, unbuckle my pants, flip her dress up and take her from behind while she holds on to the bar. People walking by. How many times in real life do you want to do stuff like this, but you can really and actually do it literally whenever and however and whenever. One of my hottest memories.

That’s hot! So free. I love it. You’re right, where else can you go? To just live life to the fullest. You brought back some good memories up there in the jacuzzi area. My favorite is on the square seating area right next to the jacuzzi. I remember my wife and I leaving the disco and went out the door to the jacuzzi. We got close to the square seating mattress, sorry can’t think of the proper name, and I held her in my arms and we started to kiss and she then proceeded to lay down on the mattress and I pleasured her a little and then pulled off her panties and we experienced one another - all while people going into the jacuzzi, talking, watching and others watching as they walked by. It was an amazing experience and I still live on cloud nine for it. It added so much passion and spice to our life when we came back home. Stories like yours are an inspiration.