looking for a respectful, open introduction 38 / 40 Years
Posted: Wed Jul 23, 2025 2:19 pmHello everyone,
We – a married couple (40 and 38 years old) – would like to introduce ourselves and share a few honest words with you.
We stayed at The Eden for one night in February 2024. Unfortunately, there was still a lot of construction going on at that time, which had a significant impact on our mood. My wife didn't feel comfortable in the surroundings – more like being on a construction site than on vacation – and so we cut our trip short.
Now, two years later, we'd like to give it another chance and are planning our arrival for January 28, 2026, with a departure on February 6. We very much hope that the hotel will now show its full beauty – and that the atmosphere will also be more relaxed.
A few personal words about us: My wife is very shy and rather reserved, comes from a Christian family, and hasn't had any experience with the typical swinger world yet. It took several conversations and a lot of trust for us to even prepare for this step.
I myself am the more open-minded of the two of us and have the desire to have new experiences in a very gentle and respectful way – especially ones that slowly and surely introduce my wife to new sensory experiences.
My wish would be to meet a friendly, young couple (preferably also up to about 40 years old) who may have experience with cautious newcomers – and who are willing to engage with us sensitively and without pressure. It would be especially nice if you speak German or Russian, as our English skills are rather limited.
We're looking for something like a casual first meeting – perhaps over a game like "spin the bottle" or simply an evening together with lots of laughter and openness. If trust develops from this, perhaps we could take the next step together.
My wish would be for my wife to be the center of attention and to be lovingly pampered – without pressure, without expectations. After that, a shared experience as a couple might also be possible, where everyone involved feels comfortable and everything takes place in a respectful and trusting environment.
I know this all sounds very concrete – perhaps even too idealistic – but perhaps this is just the right couple reading this, who will approach us without great expectations and explore together with us what can happen.
Thank you for taking the time to read our thoughts. If you feel like this appeals to you, we would be delighted to receive a message – even if it's completely non-binding and without any specific intentions.
Warm regards from Germany.
We – a married couple (40 and 38 years old) – would like to introduce ourselves and share a few honest words with you.
We stayed at The Eden for one night in February 2024. Unfortunately, there was still a lot of construction going on at that time, which had a significant impact on our mood. My wife didn't feel comfortable in the surroundings – more like being on a construction site than on vacation – and so we cut our trip short.
Now, two years later, we'd like to give it another chance and are planning our arrival for January 28, 2026, with a departure on February 6. We very much hope that the hotel will now show its full beauty – and that the atmosphere will also be more relaxed.
A few personal words about us: My wife is very shy and rather reserved, comes from a Christian family, and hasn't had any experience with the typical swinger world yet. It took several conversations and a lot of trust for us to even prepare for this step.
I myself am the more open-minded of the two of us and have the desire to have new experiences in a very gentle and respectful way – especially ones that slowly and surely introduce my wife to new sensory experiences.
My wish would be to meet a friendly, young couple (preferably also up to about 40 years old) who may have experience with cautious newcomers – and who are willing to engage with us sensitively and without pressure. It would be especially nice if you speak German or Russian, as our English skills are rather limited.
We're looking for something like a casual first meeting – perhaps over a game like "spin the bottle" or simply an evening together with lots of laughter and openness. If trust develops from this, perhaps we could take the next step together.
My wish would be for my wife to be the center of attention and to be lovingly pampered – without pressure, without expectations. After that, a shared experience as a couple might also be possible, where everyone involved feels comfortable and everything takes place in a respectful and trusting environment.
I know this all sounds very concrete – perhaps even too idealistic – but perhaps this is just the right couple reading this, who will approach us without great expectations and explore together with us what can happen.
Thank you for taking the time to read our thoughts. If you feel like this appeals to you, we would be delighted to receive a message – even if it's completely non-binding and without any specific intentions.
Warm regards from Germany.