Questions

[Lee & Kerri]

We are 35 & 39 visiting from 8/28 on and we'll report back on the demographics. But as others have indicated, it may depend on the time you visit. Either way, we have no problem having fun on our own, but if people say Desire is 100% better than Hedo 2, we'll have no problem having fun with others. Worst case scenario, you're away from home at a tropical location, having a great time with your significant other. Well...maybe that isn't the worst case scenario, but you get my drift.

[Sharon and David]

Yes!!!!!!!!

[Sharon and David]

Yes!!!!!!!!

[jnkwrangler]

My husband & I were 35 when we went for the first time last year & we were also somewhat concerned that we would be on the younger side & maybe feel a little out of place..... NOT AT ALL! We met couples of all ages that we had alot of fun with. Once you're there, age doesn't even cross your mind! As far as similar resorts...we've been to hedo & such, but Desires is by far the BEST. The hubby & I are both more comfortable being in a "couples only" atmosphere.

[jnkwrangler]

My husband & I were 35 when we went for the first time last year & we were also somewhat concerned that we would be on the younger side & maybe feel a little out of place..... NOT AT ALL! We met couples of all ages that we had alot of fun with. Once you're there, age doesn't even cross your mind! As far as similar resorts...we've been to hedo & such, but Desires is by far the BEST. The hubby & I are both more comfortable being in a "couples only" atmosphere.

[eddieandjojo]

Okay, just another post to confirm that age really doesn't matter! We are 45/39 and have been to Desire on both coasts of MX many times with the same results......we've seen peeps in their 20s/30s that were unattractive (both physically and personality wise) and on the flip side some 40s/50s that were very fit, fun and playful. It's all in the attitude and confidence that you carry yourself with that makes you attractive to others...IMHO!

We've played with some 20 yrs younger and as much at 15 yrs older and have had a blast doing so! Go with an open mind and remember confidence is a beautiful thing.

E&J

[eddieandjojo]

Okay, just another post to confirm that age really doesn't matter! We are 45/39 and have been to Desire on both coasts of MX many times with the same results......we've seen peeps in their 20s/30s that were unattractive (both physically and personality wise) and on the flip side some 40s/50s that were very fit, fun and playful. It's all in the attitude and confidence that you carry yourself with that makes you attractive to others...IMHO!

We've played with some 20 yrs younger and as much at 15 yrs older and have had a blast doing so! Go with an open mind and remember confidence is a beautiful thing.

E&J

[aandk4fun]

This is not a knock on anyone, but of course in "general" older couples are going to be more accepting of younger couples, as in "general" most younger people are in better shape physically and bear less "scars" of aging. *(again, this is in general, there are exceptions) (and with scars i refer to gray hair, wrinkled skin, the general physical changes everyone is going to experience some time or another.)

there are large differences in life experiences and where people are at mentally with age differences, things like money and kids, marriage and divorce play a major part in people mindsets... again, in general, a 25 year old couple is likely to have minimal in common with a 55 year old couple...

this isn't to say that there are expections to this generalization, but we can readily understand why a 25-30 year old couple don't want to go on vacation in a resort that is predominantly filled with 45-50 year old couples.... just as a couple that spends a lot of time in the gym and is very careful on what they eat would probably not enjoy going to a resort that 50% of the people are overweight or just don't take care of themselves

like it or not, youth and fitness are two very desirable characteristics in people and those that do not have them are probably most likely to be open to all other possibilities, as they do not have the same options of the young and beautiful....

the female half of us is 34, and has no desire whatsoever regardless of looks or fitness level, to have a man 25+ years her senior have his hands on her, she thinks its very creepy, but, she would have no problem having drinks and conversation, general partying... its a different level....

just saying....

[aandk4fun]

This is not a knock on anyone, but of course in "general" older couples are going to be more accepting of younger couples, as in "general" most younger people are in better shape physically and bear less "scars" of aging. *(again, this is in general, there are exceptions) (and with scars i refer to gray hair, wrinkled skin, the general physical changes everyone is going to experience some time or another.)

there are large differences in life experiences and where people are at mentally with age differences, things like money and kids, marriage and divorce play a major part in people mindsets... again, in general, a 25 year old couple is likely to have minimal in common with a 55 year old couple...

this isn't to say that there are expections to this generalization, but we can readily understand why a 25-30 year old couple don't want to go on vacation in a resort that is predominantly filled with 45-50 year old couples.... just as a couple that spends a lot of time in the gym and is very careful on what they eat would probably not enjoy going to a resort that 50% of the people are overweight or just don't take care of themselves

like it or not, youth and fitness are two very desirable characteristics in people and those that do not have them are probably most likely to be open to all other possibilities, as they do not have the same options of the young and beautiful....

the female half of us is 34, and has no desire whatsoever regardless of looks or fitness level, to have a man 25+ years her senior have his hands on her, she thinks its very creepy, but, she would have no problem having drinks and conversation, general partying... its a different level....

just saying....