Us: 40's, decent shape, easy-going professionals, easy on the eyes. On and off members of a lifestyle website very popular in South Florida. Visited Desire once a number of years ago (still had the lobby pool then) and are occasional visitors to swing clubs in the Southeast Florida area. Love hanging out in and by our pool au natural. BUT! We are not swingers, at least not full swap. We simply enjoy hanging with others who are in the lifestyle or at least open to it. We are are not shy and are not jealous types.
In other words, we like to watch and be watched and soft swap is not out of the picture if we click with another couple. We have no time for bedpost notchers and they would likely have no time for us. We like to travel, meet interesting people and have fun. Our previous visit to Desire was an almost perfect experience. We did meet another non-swinging (at the time) couple there who we have stayed in contact with even after they became full swap. We find it somewhat humorous that one time we were having drinks with these two and he asked if I (the husband) could ever watch another guy having sex with my wife. I told him I had with a former wife and that it was fun, but this was something that my current wife (and love of my life!) and I had agreed was not going to happen. He was all "no, no, I couldn't do it". That is, until it did happen. And then I guess he discovered he actually liked watching his wife doing another guy quite a lot. So now, she is a hot wife. Who knew?
So...any suggestions on a good time to revisit Desire? Any groups out there that would welcome a friendly, attractive, fun couple who enjoy lifestyle surroundings even if we don't participate in the...festivities...directly? Recommendations based upon experience from others who share our sense of adventure would be particularly helpful!
Thanks!!