by vablondie » Thu Dec 30, 2010 2:55 pm
We have taken many trips over the last couple of years to Desire and have therefore formed an opinion about this very topic. We have gone with groups, takeover groups, friends, and all by our lonesome so have pretty much done it all. At this point we try to avoid when "groups" are going to be there. In our opinion having a group there rarely works out well. They tend to be a bit annoying by being loud and boisterous and yet not wanting to include anyone that is not already in their group, so I guess a clique would describe them. To me this is just not what Desire is all about. I am there to meet and have fun with people from every walk, age and shape of life. I like to see everyone have a good time.
I will clarify the group thing a bit, I'm talking about groups that they all know each other. Takeovers or large swinger site groups like SDC, Kasidie, Lifestyle Lounge etc. tend to be fine. People don't really already know each other and are more than willing to include and meet new people. I realize that i am kind of generalizing here, but as I said this is just our opinion and experience.
If at least one of you is outgoing and friendly you really will have no trouble meeting people and having a great time going alone without a group there. Just hang out at the pool or hot tub and strike up a conversation with those around you. People are super friendly and are there to socialize. I would also suggest trying to meet at least one other couple for dinner each night. This is a great no strings attached way to really get to know people.
There is a section on Desire's website that has upcoming events (I think thats what its called) that list's the dates for when groups will be there.
