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Help for a nervous newbie

PostPosted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 12:00 pm
by noo_B
So we've planned to do our very first lifestyle trip together. We've known each other for 10 years - married for 8. We've had several amazing conversations and discussions and are ready to jump into to the Desire experience. That being said, you'd NEVER guess if you met us elsewhere that we're planning this trip. I've been raised very conservatively and never even worn a shirt that shows cleavage...so I'm struggling with how to pack and dress for the times I need to be dressed :wink: Am I understanding it correctly that we should be dressing up nicely for dinner and then dressing down if we want to participate in the disco nights? In my mind, this would mean packing skimpy suits and cover ups for the day, a nice (but sexy) dress for dinnertime, and a costume of sorts for the Disco. Correct? Also, we're going to be there for the following nights
Wednesday • EYES WIDE SHUT NIGHT
Thursday • LEATHER NIGHT
Friday • LINGERIE NIGHT
Saturday • TROPICAL & SEXY NIGHT
Sunday • NAUGHTY SCHOOLGIRL NIGHT

So I can figure out Leather, Lingerie, and naughty school girl. But for Eyes Wide Shut night, would I need a costume to include just a cape and mask or something special underneath (I haven't seen the movie in several years so I'm going to have to re-watch...) Also for Tropical and sexy night, just a super hot bathing suit or a sexy beach dress or a see through cover up and nothing else :wink:

I am ocd with packing and prepping, thanks for bearing with me and for the help :)

PostPosted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 1:53 pm
by chonobob
It sounds as if you've got it under control. EWS involves a cape and mask and you can check those out there at the resort...or at least in past years you could....some people take their own tho'.

Oh...what fun...you are on the right track!

PostPosted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 2:59 pm
by landedesire
I can't believe you are going to go from showing barely any cleavage to Desire...good for you girl :lol: eyes wide shut is usually nothing under the cape and for tropical night that sounds about right :) You can also think VERY sexy and daring when dressing up for dinner also...such as long v necks in the front or long slits to the hip if it is a long dress or see thru lace, etc. Have the time of your life...enjoy :D

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:26 am
by TS4ever
Where have you found the hip slit dresses ???? We have looked and looked and have not come up with any........

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:35 am
by Wingit48
Try wickedtemptations.com. Great outfits, reasonable prices, wide selection....