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Sex in the hottub - I know we've all seen it, but are you OK with it or is it a big turnoff to you.

Le Couteau Cache' wrote:Sex in the hottub - I know we've all seen it, but are you OK with it or is it a big turnoff to you.

It depends on what you mean by "Sex" . We're turned off if it looks like there's the possibility of semen being deposited in the hot tub, that's for sure!

It's an absolute turn-on.
Body shots, blowjobs, passing around the "Wet Platinum".

(Don't lose any sleep over that "stuff" that settles to the bottom.)

DA

I'd rather not see a male "deposit" in the water. Other than that, it's all great!

We love t watch and have done a little tame action in the tub. As it's been said it can be a real turn on for a lot of couples. It seems funny to us how a lot of people jump right into a stream, lake, pool or even the ocean without thinking about what might be in the water. We are not worried abut the water in the spa as the chemicals that are added will take care of almost any thing. So if the mood strikes get started in the spa then move it to the beds and put on a show for everyone.

When at RM last July, wife and I enjoyed talking at length with a beautiful woman who was giving a gentle handjob underwater to the men on either side of her as she talked with us. One was her husband, one wasn't. Based on the speed she was using (fairly slow) it was clear that she didn't intend to "make a deposit".

Agree with the others that "making a deposit" in the water is very poor form. In the back of my head I realize that it likely wouldn't be a big deal if it happened, but still not something we'd want to be a part of.

Also, just to be clear, for those of you who have never been to Desire -- seeing/having sex in the Jacuzzi AREA (but not necessarily in the water itself) is totally acceptable. I wouldn't describe it as rampant (like all things, that varies by the week/group), but it is absolutely part of the repertoire if you so "Desire".

Making deposits in the water is very common. I would guess that a lot of jacuzzis at resorts have had deposits made. The difference is that the Desire jacuzzi is completely drained every night; the water quality is managed very specifically with this in mind.

Actual sex in the water is fairly rare in my experience. Handjobs under the water are very common.

One thing that I still have a little bit of a hard time with is the very common practice of feeling people up in the jacuzzi without any kind of preface or anything. You just kind of bump into them a little, let your hand brush against them, then maybe rest your hand on their hip/belly/boobs, and if they don't move away, remove your hand or anything else just keep on going. The strangest part about it is often as not, the people trading hand jobs usually don't act like they're trading had jobs, they just continue with whatever conversation is going on around them.