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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby sonomapair » Mon Dec 26, 2016 2:36 pm

northernlightscpl wrote: Absolutely; all political correctness aside........ so absolutely right you are. I know everyone is suppose to be political correct on the forum and if your not, look out.


I respect your point of view up to the point where you feel the need to declare supposed motivation on those who disagree with you. I assure you our comments were not inspired by any desire to be politically correct. It's possible that we're just more tolerant because that's the way we are...not to make anyone else happy or to be politically correct. A chicken and egg thing. :-)

It's also likely that you don't have any real information about which point of view is in the minority or the majority on this subject. You probably do know what some of the people you enjoy hanging out with...and those who enjoy hanging with you...might think. But there's a bias built into that equation. In any case, I'm willing to concede that I don't really know what the numerical split would be between those taking great exception to the idea that folks might want to wear swimsuits (for any number of reasons, some of which have been mentioned here) and those who would not take exception.

I do know that the resort sets the rules...and they do not agree with your point of view. So they, at least, believe there are more folks who either would rather wear swimsuits or who would tolerate those who do than those who find that unacceptable. They probably realize that it takes time for many people to get comfortable and believe being accepting is good for their business. If they believed their tolerance is unacceptable to the majority of their visitors, they'd be making a very bad business decision. Could be. If so, there's a great opportunity for a new resort to open with much more rigid nudity requirements...and Desire may lose customers. We'll see!
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby eddieandjojo » Mon Dec 26, 2016 3:15 pm

sonomapair wrote:
northernlightscpl wrote: Absolutely; all political correctness aside........ so absolutely right you are. I know everyone is suppose to be political correct on the forum and if your not, look out.

If they believed their tolerance is unacceptable to the majority of their visitors, they'd be making a very bad business decision. Could be. If so, there's a great opportunity for a new resort to open with much more rigid nudity requirements...and Desire may lose customers. We'll see!


Sonomapair - no need to wait for that type of resort for those that feel that way, it exists and it's called Hedo. The nude pool is NOT optional, if you don't have your clothes off within a grace period (5 minutes I believe) you are asked to leave.

We decided to give Hedo II a try a couple months ago after going to Hedo III in 2006 and 25 Desire trips in between, ugh, what an utter disappointment. We knew we had made a mistake after being there an hour! Oh well, we'll be back to Pearl in about 63 days. CAN'T WAIT!!!!
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby sonomapair » Mon Dec 26, 2016 3:34 pm

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sonomapair wrote:
northernlightscpl wrote: Absolutely; all political correctness aside........ so absolutely right you are. I know everyone is suppose to be political correct on the forum and if your not, look out.

If they believed their tolerance is unacceptable to the majority of their visitors, they'd be making a very bad business decision. Could be. If so, there's a great opportunity for a new resort to open with much more rigid nudity requirements...and Desire may lose customers. We'll see!


Sonomapair - no need to wait for that type of resort for those that feel that way, it exists and it's called Hedo. The nude pool is NOT optional, if you don't have your clothes off within a grace period (5 minutes I believe) you are asked to leave.

We decided to give Hedo II a try a couple months ago after going to Hedo III in 2006 and 25 Desire trips in between, ugh, what an utter disappointment. We knew we had made a mistake after being there an hour! Oh well, we'll be back to Pearl in about 63 days. CAN'T WAIT!!!!


Right, though isn't the other issue with Hedo that it admits single guys? (Or is that another resort we've heard mentioned here?) So I get that some folks might like a blend of Desire and Hedo. Nudity enforced...and no single guys.
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby eddieandjojo » Mon Dec 26, 2016 3:38 pm

True that, Hedo does allow singles but during our week stay I could count the singles on one hand and they were very chill. That might not always be the case but yes, I get your point!
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby sonomapair » Mon Dec 26, 2016 3:39 pm

eddieandjojo wrote:True that, Hedo does allow singles but during our week stay I could count the singles on one hand and they were very chill. That might not always be the case but yes, I get your point!


Either way, we're on the same page. Pearl it is. We're so excited for our second trip next year! :-) Happy Holidays!
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby biloxiboating » Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:02 am

This thread is way off track.

This thread was started about swim suits in the hot tub at Desire RM.

One specific spot at one resort.

It seems that a lot of Deire Pearl people are posting about keeping their suits on. This discussion is NOT about Desire Pearl. We all know that Desire Pearl is more reserve as a general rule. Pearl people please don't be offended by that statement. That is a general statement that certainly does not apply to all Pearl lovers.

This discussion is NOT about suits in the pool area at RM or any other area at RM other than the HOT TUB.

We don't like to walk all around totally nude either but once you graduate to getting in the hot tub at Desire RM then we think you should be nude.
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby two4funinpa » Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:11 am

biloxiboating wrote:This thread is way off track.

This thread was started about swim suits in the hot tub at Desire RM.

One specific spot at one resort.

It seems that a lot of Deire Pearl people are posting about keeping their suits on. This discussion is NOT about Desire Pearl. We all know that Desire Pearl is more reserve as a general rule. Pearl people please don't be offended by that statement. That is a general statement that certainly does not apply to all Pearl lovers.

This discussion is NOT about suits in the pool area at RM or any other area at RM other than the HOT TUB.

We don't like to walk all around totally nude either but once you graduate to getting in the hot tub at Desire RM then we think you should be nude.


Agreed, this thread is way of track...how did we get here? LOL

Disagree that people "should" be nude. It's a personal preference. Nude, clothed, whatever makes you happy. In our opinion that's the beauty of Desire. We are not nudists, but are naked when we are at Desire because...because, well, that's our choice.
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby northernlightscpl » Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:29 am

biloxiboating wrote:This thread is way off track.

This thread was started about swim suits in the hot tub at Desire RM.

One specific spot at one resort.

It seems that a lot of Deire Pearl people are posting about keeping their suits on. This discussion is NOT about Desire Pearl. We all know that Desire Pearl is more reserve as a general rule. Pearl people please don't be offended by that statement. That is a general statement that certainly does not apply to all Pearl lovers.

This discussion is NOT about suits in the pool area at RM or any other area at RM other than the HOT TUB.

We don't like to walk all around totally nude either but once you graduate to getting in the hot tub at Desire RM then we think you should be nude.

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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby barebuns » Tue Dec 27, 2016 11:49 am

biloxiboating wrote: We all know that Desire Pearl is more reserve as a general rule. Pearl people please don't be offended by that statement.


Not offended but have to disagree.
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby Bareman » Tue Dec 27, 2016 12:47 pm

Regardless which Desire, we think the guests should follow the policies of the resort,. If there is no policy then people should do what they feel comfortable with. When we were at DRM I don't think there were any signs at the jacuzzi. We prefer to be nude all the time except at the restaurants.
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby Calicouple69 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 1:17 am

It's fun that this thread still exists. We feel that each does what each wants. Are we wrong in saying that a sexy suit is just as good as nude? We would think that VS has proven that it is, why else would the world spend so much money on lingerie just to take it off? On top of that you have WW, Malibu strings etc. all compliment the female body. Then we have the men......most women would agree that men's stuff just isn't as pretty or nice to look at, so a well cut suit can actually be flattering. We've done it both ways, all nude all the time, and sexy suits until the urge strikes to take it off. Guess what we found? Sexy suits are a great conversation starter! And gues what else? They come off easier than snapping your fingers! LOL. Wear your suits......or don't. Just be cool and meet people!
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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby miranda2 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:49 am

two4funinpa wrote:
Disagree that people "should" be nude. It's a personal preference. Nude, clothed, whatever makes you happy. In our opinion that's the beauty of Desire. We are not nudists, but are naked when we are at Desire because...because, well, that's our choice.


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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby miranda2 » Wed Dec 28, 2016 10:49 am

barebuns wrote:
biloxiboating wrote: We all know that Desire Pearl is more reserve as a general rule. Pearl people please don't be offended by that statement.


Not offended but have to disagree.


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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby Vixen and Him » Mon Jan 02, 2017 4:39 pm

BandP wrote:1 piece, 2 piece, no piece...whatever makes you comfortable at the time. We will party with you anyway. If the hot tub was "full nude required", I don't think we would have ever dipped our toes in, in the first place. We don't go to worry about what you are or are not wearing...we go for us...

The hot tub was intimidating to us our first trip...second trip we did nude body shots on the bar...I'm glad that others respected our process from suits to au natural...if you are judging others for wearing suits, then who's really doing the gawking??? Just saying.

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Re: why are people wearing bathing suits in the hot tub

Postby brewandsue » Tue Jan 03, 2017 12:09 am

sonomapair wrote:Right, though isn't the other issue with Hedo that it admits single guys? (Or is that another resort we've heard mentioned here?) So I get that some folks might like a blend of Desire and Hedo. Nudity enforced...and no single guys.


That place exists...it's called Sea Mountain Inn in Desert Hot Springs, California. Nudity mandatory and no single men!
Granted it is very small compared to Desire or Hedo, and it is in the desert, but you do get that wonderful combination you asked for.
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