Question is, is the crowd at pool/hot-tub/disco clicky? We see many comments that all folks are cool and chill and open and friendly (kinda like what you see at a nudist resort). However we also catch an over-confident/clicky/show-offy tone in some posts. We are both social, but passive social. I personally don't mind inserting myself in a moderate crowd, wife not so much unless I accompany her or unless she's directly invited.
We both tend to gravitate quickly away from loud/closed crowds. We have found those types at many LS events, and we just don't mix with that at all. I'm referring to the "we've been here 20 times, come here twice a year, we've fucked everyone here, let us tell you exactly what you need to do while down here and how to do it" or those who will stand around in a loud circle, elbow locked, so as not to be inviting of anyone else types.
Not trying to strike a nerve at all. We're very friendly people. Just want to prepare so I can ensure Susan's week is bliss.

