Worried??

[north52]

For all 1st timers considering booking or are booked and are worried about being "attacked" by strangers, here's been our experience. We have been to RM 10 times over the past 7 years and we have never been approached on the lifestyle subject. We are in our mid 50's and we are average in looks, weight, dress, etc.
So... if you fall into this category and are looking for some sexy fun with your significant other, book the trip and leave the jitters behind. At the same time, if you're both looking for some additional spice in your relationship, no worries, your vibes will be detected. Either way, we see it as a win/win.
We're heading back to RM for trip #11 and can't wait.
Hope this helps.

[Explorer79]

After our one visit I'd say this was our take as well. It's there for sure but it's way more subtle than we initially imagined. Unless you are able to sing the song of the Sirens you'll probably have to put yourself out there, make some effort etc... to make things happen.