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New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 4:53 pm
by Emptynesters404
We just returned from Desire on the 18th of April. As we were unpacking, I was looking through the "Little Black Book", a booklet they give you when checking in to help orient you. In the section "allowable places for sexual activity", it had the usual places like the playroom in the disco and the jacuzzi but there was something new. There in black and white it included the beach beds. I did a double take and thought for sure I had misread, nope, plain as day, it included the beach beds as an acceptable place to play. For sure I thought this had to be a mistake. As anyone who has even been to Desire knows, on each bed was a little sign that expressly prohibited any type of sexual conduct.

I didn't give it much thought because it was already a little after 4PM and you know what time that is at Desire ;), we had someplace to be. The next day we spent most of the day at the pool as the beach beds were pretty quite and we really enjoy Sunday's at the pool when a lot of new people are arriving. It is always great to see how people are reacting to their first time there. 99% of the time you can tell they are going to be repeaters almost immediately.

At around 2, we decided to head down to the beach and relax for a little while before jacuzzi time. We turned our beach chairs around to catch the sun. As my wife was feeding the birds some peanuts, I noticed a couple on one of the beds getting a little frisky. Not that uncommon but we were in full view. Before you know it he is entering her from behind in a spoon position and they are having full on sex. 6 times to Desire and that was a first. I kept looking around thinking the security guard is going to tell them to stop, but he didn't. Then another couple a few beds down started another show just as that one finished. Needless to say, the beach has become a whole lot more interesting.

When Africa came around, we confirmed that there has been a rule change and that is was not a misprint in the booklet. I just thought people would like to know.

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 6:04 pm
by AandJ
Awesome ;-)
Thank you for the update .

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 6:24 pm
by Mystra
Sounds like another fantasy may go into reality in Sept for us :bj

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 8:47 pm
by khplay8
Mystra wrote:Sounds like another fantasy may go into reality in Sept for us :bj


D&K see you guys on the beach on the 20th :bj :P

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 8:51 pm
by $parkie7
I'm all for it!!! I wonder how long this rule will last??

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Tue Apr 18, 2017 10:31 pm
by nottooshy
Husband and I will be fully testing the rule change in a couple of days!!

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Wed Apr 19, 2017 12:04 am
by Explorer79
We were planning on breaking that rule in early May, now we will merely be conformists.

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Wed Apr 19, 2017 5:13 am
by tonyferreira
Thanks for the info and just hope this rule lasts till i arrive. :) :PORT

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Wed Apr 19, 2017 8:02 pm
by coupleluvs2watch
Explorer79 wrote:We were planning on breaking that rule in early May, now we will merely be conformists.




:D

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Wed Apr 19, 2017 8:38 pm
by Mystra
Explorer79 wrote:We were planning on breaking that rule in early May, now we will merely be conformists.


:L

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Wed Apr 19, 2017 11:34 pm
by 2New2MN
Does anyone know if this policy will also apply to Pearl? We are splitting our time between the two resorts and would hate to be spoiled with beach bed PDS at RM and then have to dial it back when a get to Pearl.

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2017 2:23 pm
by SexxxyInMe
Now that is a very positive change in policy! :L :L

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2017 3:33 pm
by TandD
I have to say I'm quite surprised by this apparent change in rules and I'm not sure I agree with it.

I totally get the thrill of having sex in front of others - checked that off a few times now - but I think it should be restricted to willing participants - not whoever happens to be strolling down the beach.

The question of "Hey, my girlfriend and I want to try public sex. How should we do it?" comes up all the time in various sex forums. Overwhelmingly, the answer is "Go for it but don't involve other people in your kink unless they agree to be." Obviously, the people at Desire have given tacit approval to see you have sex by virtue of being there. The people on the beach have not.

Yes, you can have sex on the beach beds discretely and perhaps nobody could tell but isn't it likely that *somebody* is going to push the limits and cause a complaint? That's why I thought Desire was just being prudent in prohibiting it completely.

Maybe I'm just paranoid about something happening to shut this place down. Seems like an odd policy change to me.

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2017 4:09 pm
by Ron & Kim
I thought this place is about fantasies coming true, hence the name Desires... We wanna have sex in public what better place then right on a beach bed. Damn!! We're still not going till August. I hope this is still a posibily.

Re: New Beach Bed SEX Policy

PostPosted: Fri Apr 21, 2017 4:35 pm
by SpeedKills
Did they make any changes regarding sex poolside? Thanks!