Jacuzzi Lounge Etiquette
Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2018 9:10 am
We are curious if we are the only ones or if others feel the same way about hot tub time. When that time comes around and we are climbing the stairway to heaven, or at least what we perceive to be one of the greatest locations on the planet earth, we believe we are entering a sexy place for some sexy time. Looking at 80% of the others in this special place, we aren't the only ones who feel the same way. Unfortunately, there are some who just don't get it. I am hoping to jump start a discussion about some of the acceptable and unacceptable unwritten rules that exist that makes this place so special. If we are wrong and need to adjust our expectations lets hear it.
1.) For many, one of the most erotic aspects of Desire, regardless of lifestyle participation, is sex in public. It is erotic on so many levels, both for the couple exhibiting and the couples watching. Nothing kills the mood faster than a group of people standing 3 feet away having a loud conversation about their volleyball match earlier in the day or what they had for dinner. It's one thing if the group was there first, but if they walked up and started watching then that is a whole other situation.
2.) Guys wearing swim suits in the hot tub. When Tempations was closed and a lot of guests from there came to Desire, I understand that they may not be there for the same reasons and I gave a pass. Now however, I feel like it is kind of creepy for a guy to be fully clothed watching other people engage in sexual activity while standing in the hot tub. Maybe if you don't feel comfortable you should stay by the pool or sit at the bar.
3.) Okay people, it is 2018 and smoking in public has gone the way of the dodo. I get it, we used to smoke and have smoked many packages of cigarettes sitting at the bar in the jacuzzi lounge. This however is now a SMOKE FREE zone, they have an area over by the beds for smoking. We all pay good money to be there, we wouldn't say anything if there weren't signs saying no smoking, but there are and it kills us if we are downwind.
Let us know what you think and what are some other faux pas that we might be able to help some avoid.
1.) For many, one of the most erotic aspects of Desire, regardless of lifestyle participation, is sex in public. It is erotic on so many levels, both for the couple exhibiting and the couples watching. Nothing kills the mood faster than a group of people standing 3 feet away having a loud conversation about their volleyball match earlier in the day or what they had for dinner. It's one thing if the group was there first, but if they walked up and started watching then that is a whole other situation.
2.) Guys wearing swim suits in the hot tub. When Tempations was closed and a lot of guests from there came to Desire, I understand that they may not be there for the same reasons and I gave a pass. Now however, I feel like it is kind of creepy for a guy to be fully clothed watching other people engage in sexual activity while standing in the hot tub. Maybe if you don't feel comfortable you should stay by the pool or sit at the bar.
3.) Okay people, it is 2018 and smoking in public has gone the way of the dodo. I get it, we used to smoke and have smoked many packages of cigarettes sitting at the bar in the jacuzzi lounge. This however is now a SMOKE FREE zone, they have an area over by the beds for smoking. We all pay good money to be there, we wouldn't say anything if there weren't signs saying no smoking, but there are and it kills us if we are downwind.
Let us know what you think and what are some other faux pas that we might be able to help some avoid.