Dear all:
As some of you know, next month is going to be our FIRST trip (hope not the last) to Desire Rivera Maya.
My wife is asking me about dress code for ladies, wondering what to pack, and I am confused.
1) We have been to Cap d'Adge in France MANY times, and I always ask my wife to wear those ultra sexy dresses (the ones you would never wear out of a Lifestyle environment) at night. At Cap d'Adge you wear that dress to the restaurant, and then go, from there, to a club, for fun.
2) In the Lifestlye clubs in Europe, there is another etiquette. You arrive in normal "street clothes", and at a given time (around 10:30 pm), they play a given song (that we all know), signaling the time for couples to go to the lockers and change into lingerie (ladies) or classy underwear (gentlement).
Normally ladies change into a pair of sexy knickers + stockings+sexy lingerie bra+gartner belt to hold the stockings.
I was going to send some of our pictures (faceless ) of both a) and b), but I can't find the way to attach them to my message. If you know, please, tell me how.
My question is:
- If my wife changes after hot tub, etc into one of this VERY sexy dresses, is it "normal" to (do other couples) go to the restaruant like this? She wouldn't mind to do it AS LONG as the rest of the couples do the same, but she will kill me if I ask her to do it and the rest of women in restaurant are dressing "just sexy" (the kind of "sexy" to be found in non-lifestyle environments).
- Should she wear simply "street sexy" for the restaurant and then change into "lifestyle-Cap d'Adge" sexy for the Disco?
- When do you change into stockings, knickers and bra? To go to the playroom?
It all seems a bit confusing to me.
I know some of you are going to tell me to "go ahead and dress in whatever way"... but I DON'T want to put my wife in the embarrasing situation to be (under)dressed in Cap d'Adge style ("slutty, as you call it") erotic dresses, only to find out there are only 2 women out of 100 dressed like that in the restaurant.
Thank you for your advice and suggestions
PD: How do you upload pictures to these messages?