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Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Sat Apr 06, 2013 3:08 pm
by Sugar77
We're a late 30s/early 40s cpl planning our first Desire vacation in 2014. I think we'd be most interested going during a week when there is a fun group with a high population close to our age and lifestyle friendly, but not over the top. Finding it difficult to get an understanding of the various group types, size, avg age, etc. just by reading trip reviews and posts. Is there an easier way to find more specific info on the groups that may be what we are looking for? Appreciate any recommendations and info on a few groups for us! Thanks!

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Sat Apr 06, 2013 3:57 pm
by werfun
Are there "groups" in your area. You could go to one of their affairs to check out their ages,sizes, ect. We bet that you will find every age, size, type there. Real life is not like the lifestyle videos and movies that are out there where they only show the good looking couples. You could also check out to see what groups are going to be there when you go and then contact them to ask your questions that you want to know about. The times that we have been to Desires the guest have been all different ages, sizes, types and we have always had a good time with everyone no matter what.
If you check out the pictures on a couple of lifestyle sites you will see what I'm saying about all ages, sizes and types in the lifestyle

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Sat Apr 06, 2013 4:37 pm
by Sugar77
We're familiar with the lifestyle as we have dabbled a little. We've also been to Hedo and there were several groups there at the time, so we understand the group thing. But each group or takeover week is different, whether they are mostly nudists or mostly swingers or a mix, whether a party crowd or more quiet, whether hardcore swingers or mild, age range and avg age, and usual group size. We know nothing about the groups who go to Desire or the takeover and theme weeks, so best way to find out is to ask and hopefully hear from some people who have experience with these groups. Some of the groups we've noticed who have groups trips in 2013 are Desirious Party, Swingercast, YNOTS, Freaky Frigates, Serenity events, Sexy Dreams Week, LoveVoodoo. YNOTS and Desirious Party seem to be popular. We know LoveVoodoo events are very popular at Hedo.

Love to hear from anyone with specific group or week suggestions!

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Sat Apr 06, 2013 6:32 pm
by CokeMann
Sugar77 wrote:Love to hear from anyone with specific group or week suggestions!

Check your PM inbox for information sent to you re: the YNOTs group and upcoming trips :D

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Mon May 06, 2013 6:20 pm
by swgap
Some lifestyle website takeovers are usually good crowds (30's & 40's and nearly all lifestyle). LL takes over the entire resort for a week 2 or 3 times a year at the different resorts. I think they do a takeover in March each year at Desire RM and Halloween at Desire Pearl. We are going to the takeover in Cabo in early October.

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Mon May 06, 2013 7:56 pm
by Miacpl30
Come over labor day weekend with ynots. Its our first group trip after 2 trips there previously.

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Mon May 06, 2013 7:58 pm
by David Donna
"We're a late 30s/early 40s cpl planning our first Desire vacation in 2014. I think we'd be most interested going during a week when there is a fun group with a high population close to our age and lifestyle friendly, but not over the top."

In the Polls Section, there is the poll on "How OLD are the people at Desire". The results are shown after you add your own age range. From the times we have been there, the poll is fairly accurate. Older clientle at Pearl, probably because it costs more.

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Fri Jul 15, 2016 11:51 am
by Olivier Olivier
I would have a question: we are newbies and will be in Riviera Maya early November, do you suggest to join a group or no need?
We are 42 and 47s cpl
Thanks in advance for your suggestions

Re: Desire Group Suggestions??

PostPosted: Fri Jul 15, 2016 12:18 pm
by werfun
By all means join a DRM group before your trip. The group members can help with any questions you might have and its always nice to know another guest when you arrive and get into the pool and spa. :D :D