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Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Thu Oct 10, 2019 10:51 am
by thetanman1957
Great report. Sounds like you will be back!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2019 7:41 pm
by edunlla
I know it sounds like there is an echo in here but I also have to give kuddos for probably the best trip report of all time. I feel this way because the report mirrors our journey into the lifestyle in so many ways. We have been to Pearl once and RM twice and in December 2-16 we will be making our third pilgrimage to both resorts. The thing that draws us the most is the people we meet. In the section titled "takeaways" most accurately describes the part about being so deeply in love with each other since we entered the lifestyle. Further describing family and friends in sexless marriages and not willing to do anything about it, really puts an exclamation point on the story.
I have to thank the author for sharing so eloquently and in detail. You will change attitudes and lives with your views
C and S

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Fri Oct 11, 2019 7:52 pm
by LHM
Absolutely fantastic report! Our 1st trip was 3 years ago and we experienced many of the feelings you described. This past winter, we decided to ‘take a year off’ and go to another resort in Mexico. As soon as we got to the resort and changed into our bathing suits to go to the pool, we knew we made a mistake-LOL. Needless to say, we are booked to return to DRM in January! Reading your report makes us even more excited to return. Thanks!!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Sat Oct 12, 2019 1:56 pm
by Hikercouple56
edunlla wrote:I know it sounds like there is an echo in here but I also have to give kuddos for probably the best trip report of all time. I feel this way because the report mirrors our journey into the lifestyle in so many ways. We have been to Pearl once and RM twice and in December 2-16 we will be making our third pilgrimage to both resorts. The thing that draws us the most is the people we meet. In the section titled "takeaways" most accurately describes the part about being so deeply in love with each other since we entered the lifestyle. Further describing family and friends in sexless marriages and not willing to do anything about it, really puts an exclamation point on the story.
I have to thank the author for sharing so eloquently and in detail. You will change attitudes and lives with your views
C and S


You're welcome! I appreciate the comment but it really makes me happy that others think our report could "change attitudes and lives" because that was the goal. Everyone that adds to this forum helps change views and lives in some small way and I'm glad to finally have input and some knowledge to pass on to others. I wasn't expecting so many comments but I'm ecstatic that everyone seems to like our report and it's resonating with so many people on the forum!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Wed Nov 06, 2019 1:48 pm
by LAKELIFE4US
Thank you so much for this detailed description of your life changing experience. We loved how you both put your 10 cents into this...always nice to hear the women's perspective.

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Wed Nov 20, 2019 9:49 am
by desireaddict
You write like a pro!
Looking forward to your first (or next) novel.

I'd give a more hardier "thanks" but I realize that as all the curious Newbies read this in their first visit to the forum it will result in it being even more difficult to get rooms at Desire. (Hard to imagine there were days with only 50% occupancy! Must have been Tues/Wed/Thurs.)

It's been 15 years since we made our first trip to Desire. Your report brought back a flood of those great "first time" memories!
Thanks for taking the time to share it all with us.

Life is Good!
DA

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Tue Dec 10, 2019 10:03 am
by Hikercouple56
We booked our 2nd trip!!!! We are heading back to paradise August 19th - 23rd, 2020!!!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Thu Dec 12, 2019 9:45 pm
by SunnyDDays
Amazing post. Certainly.covers everything and more that I’d never thought of. Thank you!

Must read: "Our First Desire Experience"

PostPosted: Thu May 27, 2021 6:52 pm
by Cheers2US
Just wanted to bump this post for anyone who hasn't read the original yet. It's a great post whether you're on the fence about going, newbies or even season veterans. The original post is probably my favorite ever on this forum.

:L :L :L

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Thu Jul 08, 2021 2:57 pm
by OhioCouple11
I just wanted to thank OP for this post. Our first time is coming up on September 20th, and we've read and re read this a few times... .Great overview and makes our countdown even more exciting!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Tue Jul 20, 2021 8:15 am
by Kscpl
Hi everyone! My wife and I will be back at the Pearl in Nov. This is our first trip back in a couple years…. COVID and other life events. We have been to the Pearl 5-6 times and have enjoyed every trip.

Our first trip was an adventure. Not knowing what to expect, we definitely did not expect all the PDA we saw on our first trip, but it didn’t take up long to join in the fun. I recently read some questions on this forum regarding couples visiting the Pearl or RM for the first time, who are NOT currently in the lifestyle. They are concerned that they may only be approached for a Full Swap. I saw some great responses and wanted to share our experience.

We are at mid-50’s couple and are generally shy when it comes to meeting people. We are not full swap, but consider ourselves in the lifestyle. I wanted to share a short story about a wonderful experience we had at the Pearl a couple of years ago.

We met a couple at the hot tub and we really clicked. We chatted for a while, getting to know one another, and before long, the four of us were on one of the hot tub beds. There was a lot of touching and kissing happening between the ladies. It wasn’t long before we husbands joined in and went down on our wives.

My wife and I love to play together on the hot tub beds together and “luckily” we had brought our rechargeable Magic Wand. I retrieved the Wand from our bag, placed a condom over the head and handed it to the other husband. He immediately began using it on his wife’s clit. He asked if I would like to use the Wand on his wife and I gladly accepted. She had a couple of intense orgasms as her husband and I took turns massaging her and paying extra attention her clit. We soon replaced the condom on the Wand and refocused our attention on my wife as the ladies continued to kiss and touch one another. We made love to our spouses as they were lying next to each other and changed positions many times to optimize and share the view of the activities.

Of course, I’m leaving out some details and this experienced lasted 45 minutes to an hour. I don’t know that I would say that we had a “soft swap” experience. Yes, there are LOTs of different definitions of “soft swap” and this may fit someone’s definition. There was no oral swapping, just lots of intimate touching and massage and love making with our own spouses. We had an awesome time and, although the timing hasn’t been right to meet again, we are still in contact with this other couple and hope to meet again someday.

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Fri Sep 03, 2021 10:00 am
by desireaddict
OhioCouple11 wrote:I just wanted to thank OP for this post. Our first time is coming up on September 20th, and we've read and re read this a few times... .Great overview and makes our countdown even more exciting!

As much fun reading it this time as the first time!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Fri Sep 03, 2021 12:20 pm
by Cheers2US
desireaddict wrote:
OhioCouple11 wrote:I just wanted to thank OP for this post. Our first time is coming up on September 20th, and we've read and re read this a few times... .Great overview and makes our countdown even more exciting!

As much fun reading it this time as the first time!


It really is an excellent post. I sometimes search for it just for the good reading material and to remind myself what the resort and experience are all about.

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Thu Sep 09, 2021 8:23 am
by Hikercouple56
I haven't been on this forum in a few months and am so glad that you sexy, kinky folks still enjoy reading our about our first experience! We just got back from our second trip (it was delayed 3 times because of Covid) and I'm working on our second trip report. Desire is amazing and there will be a third trip!

Re: Our First Desire Experience - September 2019

PostPosted: Tue Sep 28, 2021 1:57 pm
by Justskin
Great report, thanks for sharing!