For context, this was our 3rd Desire experience. The first was Cabo (before closing), then DRM, and now DRM again. I’ll keep this brief but feel free to DM us for further details on anything.
Travel
We used Kalido this time from the airport, to our hotel transfer for the second leg of our trip, and back to the airport. Nothing but 5 stars for us. No traffic issues at any point but we did see the construction.
Arrival
We were greeted by Ivan who did a wonderful job welcoming us and checking us in. That was followed by the sell on the premier meeting which we declined a few times. After then walking us to the spa, another offer in even more spa credits was made, so we agreed, knowing we will never be premier members. We were early (12PM) and Ivan did a great job booking us at the spa for our erotic massage on our last day, applying the credits, and the spa then giving us a locker. From there, we grabbed lunch and then headed to the beach where we lounged naked until our room was ready.
Room
We were in a deluxe ocean view and have zero complaints about the room. Great temperature control, great view, great porn selection, and great turndown service. Bags we delivered to our room. Fridge was overstocked each day.
Food
We went in with low expectations and we’re shocked by how much better the food has gotten. Even the buffets were really well done. Very much improved from the past.
Staff
Each staff member was lovely. We’d like to especially call out Africa at the pool and Jorge at the buffet. We had Jorge at the buffet twice and he’s just one of the kindest humans we’ve ever met. He even saw us eating at Suki as he walked by and came into the restaurant where he wasn’t working to check on us and say goodbye. Really impressive service.
Entertainment
The nightly shows have also improved and was an enjoyable 2 hours each evening. The nightclub was largely unchanged and we didn’t use the playroom this time around. Jacuzzi also unchanged but VERY active each afternoon and late night.
People
While we keep reading a 50/50 split on lifestyle vs not, this has NOT been our experience either trip to DRM. We are not in the lifestyle but like being naked and playing publicly. However, we were the vast minority and felt “hunted” most of the trip. To the point where we were heavily pressured more than once. Nothing more annoying than listening to someone try to convince us to do something they want us to do. Really became a turnoff and we eventually just avoided everyone. This is the reason that we won’t be returning and will be looking for alternatives that better suit us. If you are in the lifestyle, this IS where you want to be.
Erotic Massage
Amazing experience for us but much more than what we’ve experienced the other 2 times we’ve done it.
All in all, the resort has worked hard to be its best version of itself but the people we’ve encountered are far too pushy for us to ever return. We don’t judge and if we were in the lifestyle, it would be wonderful place. It’s just not for us.