Our biggest mistake
Posted: Fri Sep 03, 2010 8:00 pmWe spent 8/25/10 though 8/30/10
It took us about 4 hours of arriving at Desire when we realized we made the biggest mistake of our lives…
We ONLY BOOKED FIVE NIGHTS!!!!
Please forgive us. We‘ve never done anything like this before and we weren’t sure when push came to shove if we were up for it. WE WERE!!
We had such butterflies on the car ride to the resort. Thank god for that glass of champagne. Don’t think we heard anything the person at the desk was saying to us because we were so overwhelmed that we were actually here. We had so many questions. How long would it take us to bare it all? (as you will see it took 4 hours) Is this for us?(Oh yeah it was) Would we know someone here? (Actually ended up meeting someone I worked with, haha. But it was fine. Can it get any funnier than that.) Is everyone in the lifestyle (since we were not)? (It did not matter because everyone was there for fun). Did we pack the right stuff? (Basically, we were nude the entire day, at dinner men wore slacks and button down shirts and the woman wore whatever. Many wore mesh or see through tops and yes, we did overpack....rookies)
It was a heck of an initiation. We arrived on Wednesday night and were literally at Desires for four hours before we were in the Disco with cloaks and masks for the eyes wide shut. We went right up for the ceremony and were naked in front of the whole resort. Didn’t know we had it in us but there was no turning back now. Hell we even worked up enough nerve to make it to the playroom that night. Which by the way is great! It is so erotic to have sex in front of others and to have others watching you.
We ended up meeting a very nice couple that talked us through how everything worked at the resort. It helped a lot. Rookies we recommend connecting with someone that has been there several times before at the start of the trip. Things seem to progress at different parts of the resort at different times. We quickly ended up getting into a daily routine. Wake up at 10,have sex, eat breakfast, go to the pool and drink, lunch, sex, nap, Jacuzzi, dinner, playroom (sex), back to the Jacuzzi, pizza, sex, repeat the next day. Can you see why we love it here?
One of the big concerns we had before going were the ground rules for ourselves. It turned out to be funny for several reasons. One, that we thought we had rules set up but they kind of morphed as we moved through the week. And two, there are so many possibilities that you can find yourselves in a situation where your “ground rulesâ€
It took us about 4 hours of arriving at Desire when we realized we made the biggest mistake of our lives…
We ONLY BOOKED FIVE NIGHTS!!!!
Please forgive us. We‘ve never done anything like this before and we weren’t sure when push came to shove if we were up for it. WE WERE!!
We had such butterflies on the car ride to the resort. Thank god for that glass of champagne. Don’t think we heard anything the person at the desk was saying to us because we were so overwhelmed that we were actually here. We had so many questions. How long would it take us to bare it all? (as you will see it took 4 hours) Is this for us?(Oh yeah it was) Would we know someone here? (Actually ended up meeting someone I worked with, haha. But it was fine. Can it get any funnier than that.) Is everyone in the lifestyle (since we were not)? (It did not matter because everyone was there for fun). Did we pack the right stuff? (Basically, we were nude the entire day, at dinner men wore slacks and button down shirts and the woman wore whatever. Many wore mesh or see through tops and yes, we did overpack....rookies)
It was a heck of an initiation. We arrived on Wednesday night and were literally at Desires for four hours before we were in the Disco with cloaks and masks for the eyes wide shut. We went right up for the ceremony and were naked in front of the whole resort. Didn’t know we had it in us but there was no turning back now. Hell we even worked up enough nerve to make it to the playroom that night. Which by the way is great! It is so erotic to have sex in front of others and to have others watching you.
We ended up meeting a very nice couple that talked us through how everything worked at the resort. It helped a lot. Rookies we recommend connecting with someone that has been there several times before at the start of the trip. Things seem to progress at different parts of the resort at different times. We quickly ended up getting into a daily routine. Wake up at 10,have sex, eat breakfast, go to the pool and drink, lunch, sex, nap, Jacuzzi, dinner, playroom (sex), back to the Jacuzzi, pizza, sex, repeat the next day. Can you see why we love it here?
One of the big concerns we had before going were the ground rules for ourselves. It turned out to be funny for several reasons. One, that we thought we had rules set up but they kind of morphed as we moved through the week. And two, there are so many possibilities that you can find yourselves in a situation where your “ground rulesâ€
ok that's enough wondering, I need another small trip to dersire before I do something I won't walk away from.
