Ok well here it goes. I am a very open minded person and knew what type of resort this was going into it. What I didn't know, was how we as a couple would deal with it.
First of all, I drank too much and that usually means I will do something crazy. My poor sweet husband usually has to babysit me when I drink and Desire was no different.
When we arrived we were a little shy but quickly enjoyed being able to remove our clothes. Very sexy atmosphere, great staff, great drinks, wonderful food, beautiful room and grounds. The resort was one of the best I have ever been to.
Most of the people we met were very friendly and we enjoyed making new friends...shout out to my buds who watched my back, literally! My husband was renamed "Kevin Bacon" and I love it! However..... we did have several encounters that were not planned. We had boundaries that neither of us would get physical with anyone else. I broke those rules first and my husband was fine that I kissed another woman. We also ended up in a room with 2 other couples that we had agreed we would not do, but the alcohol involved..........when my husband kissed another woman I did not expect to react the way I did, which was to promptly leave and take an entire bottle of champagne with me to my room and give him the cold shoulder for close to an entire day. I am so very sensitive and he did hurt my feelings. He tried to apologize but it really just has to be forgotten....after all, look where I dragged him! I hate myself for being such a girl, but there it is.
Another night that was not quite as fun was when we were sort of taken advantage of in the hotub. No one asked us permission to touch either one of us and permission was not given. We are nice southern folk with manners so we weren't sure how to handle this without being rude so we just avoided certain areas of the resort.
To wrap it up, this resort was not our cup of tea. I think we may be Naturist. I loved being naked, I loved the staff, I loved the food, I loved the resort. We met some cool and some not so cool people. I will try Caliente next couples trip.
My advice to other newbies: If your not a swinger, go to Hidden Beach or other nudist type of resort, save yourself some discomfort, fights, and hurt feelings. And don't drink too much!