We were at Desire in March for our second trip and after being devoted followers of this forum and living vicariously through other people’s recaps of Desire we were compelled to share some random thoughts and observations about our trip so others can share in the great environment that this incredible resort affords.
We can’t deny it, the experience at desire is like a drug and we are addicted! It’s a vacation like nothing we have ever enjoyed and we find ourselves talking about it every day and counting the weeks until we can return.
Although this was our second trip in only a few months time (we spent three nights in December too “try it out”) we found ourselves nervous again on the bus ride to the resort. We were apprehensive about whether the second trip could be as fantastic as the first. What we found is that it was the people we met there that made our second trip even better.
Everyone there was very friendly, outgoing, easy to talk to, and fun, fun, fun to be around. Because we aren't swingers, you might think that we would be on the outside of the fun, but at Desire one of the greatest things about the environment is the open and accepting attitude of everybody and it’s great to be able to enjoy the fun at whatever level of involvement you are comfortable with. The anonymity, openness and fun spirited attitude create an environment that is duplicated nowhere else we have been.
The environment at Desire is so unique because people whose last names and personal details you will never learn, temporarily become your best friends in the world in only a few short days .While only there for three nights, we left very heavy-hearted to have to say goodbye to people who became close friends and who adopted us into their lifestyle without condemning our comfort limits. We were so sad when the trip ended that we are already planning another trip.
The days are filled with fun; from beach volleyball, salsa dance lessons, and pool volleyball in the early afternoon; to the Jacuzzi in the late afternoon, and then the disco at night. We couldn't wait to see our new friends over and over. The day starts with swimming naked in the pool in the morning when everyone was meeting and chatting, then soaking in the Jacuzzi where, on this trip, there were plenty of body shots, group ice breaker games, and even sex toys brought into the water. There was also other erotic eye-candy like live sex shows from the shower to the beds! Then, of course, there was the disco where the dance floor was very erotic and the playroom where we could enjoy each other right next to our friends who were in groups. Later, the Jacuzzi kept the energy going as new friends met and connected to talk and play. The fun flirty sexual atmosphere made my husband and I feel closer, and we both walked away from Desire feeling much more attractive both to each other and to other people.
Desire is an interesting place where the range of people is a unique one that you can’t find anywhere else. When we made our first trip there we were very afraid we would be exposed as not being in the lifestyle and so we didn’t talk to many people. When we introduced ourselves, we would say, “Hi, we aren’t swingers.” The valuable lesson we learned on this trip is how much more enjoyable the Desire experience is if you interact, tease, flirt, and even play with as many people as possible. We were much more comfortable and went out of our way to interact and meet friends and we totally recommend this strategy to newbies. We realized that it’s okay to have boundaries and everyone respects that.
We still talk about the people we met there in March, how they really made a difference in our life, and that was just in three short days. It’s the kind of vacation that you take home with you and relive the memories for weeks or even months. This is the very best part of the Desire experience because like no other vacation, the benefit of Desire is the pride and confidence and self-esteem that you take home. We have never found any other place where everyone wants to meet you and know you and touch you and even play with you. You cannot possible keep from coming home feeling sexy! The people there gave us a great gift of self confidence that most people would pay dearly for. To us Desire is a fantastic value and the memories and fantasies and confidence that we brought home are like a drug. How could we not want to race back? We need another fix!
If you’ve got a questions feel free to pm us. We are starting to feel qualified to answer and like most everybody who goes to Desire we are itching to tell the stories that we can’t talk about to anybody back home!