It was time to return.
We began to crave Desire in spite of the fact that after our last visit we posted a trip report which expressed some frustration with the exclusion/rudeness we had experienced at the hands of some of the members of the one swinger group who ever behaved that way toward us. After that trip, we both sensed that we had had our fill of Desire for a little while.
We were correct. Our hiatus lasted eleven months.
But let’s all just admit it. Once you get the Desire Bug it probably never leaves. We scheduled our trip to begin a few weeks after my fiftieth birthday. We planned the trip about five months in advance. The wait as always, became more excruciating with each passing day. It helped to join the April Yahoo Group and review/post E-mails and photos with hopelessly hooked Desire fanatics and nervous newbies.
The wife and I always request a Garden View room in part, because we are rarely in our room. Being nudists (well exhibitionists/voyeurs too) it is not as if we have other couples in our room. Our time is spent at the pool, the beach, the Jacuzzi, the restaurants, the disco, the Playroom, and the Jacuzzi beds, usually in that order. We don’t need a large room or an in-room Jacuzzi or a great view. We therefore don’t want to pay for such amenities. Two weeks before our arrival I did lose some composure, though. While barely maintaining dignity, I found myself essentially begging for a room near the pool. During my on-line check in I found myself E-mailing the staff explaining that, “Gee, we’ve been to Desire Cabo once and Desire Cancun twice and gosh, this trip is for my fiftieth birthday. May we please get a room near the pool?â€