Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

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Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby bigdaddy » Wed Aug 28, 2013 9:00 am

This is a VERY long review, but I'm paying back the moderator(s) of the forum and all of the wonderful contributors who gave us so much AWESOME info before our trip. I hope it helps.

We've been to several clothing optional resorts in Jamaica and Mexico before (Couples Tower Isle and Hidden Beach Resort, for example), and were looking for a more lively atmosphere while still maintaining some upper level food and property standards. After hearing that Hedo has fallen off and being at the very nice but serene HBR, we decided to give DRM a try. We went for the first time in late May 2013 (that Trip Report is also posted on 6/11/2013). We returned on 8/20 and stayed through 8/25/13.

Airport/Arrival – As usual, the greeter was waiting just past the sea of enthusiastic airport salespeople. Once through the doors, he led us to the curb where we waited for less than 5 minutes to be loaded up and on our way. The trip was a little more than 10 minutes and very comfortable. I would urge every traveler to DRM to avail themselves of the airport transfer option. As Forrest Gump said..."one less thing" to worry about.

Staff / Service – The butlers ( Jorge and Rafael) remembered us from our last trip (when we had a Passion Suite), and were always offering to help or ask if we needed anything, even though they were not assigned to us personally this trip. The front desk was very cheerful and eager to help with check in and getting settled. Our room was ready immediately (#1602) and we unpacked before heading to the pool.

Pool Area – The pool attendants were very good (sometimes a bit over worked, even though occupancy was about 60% or so. The were quick with towels and other items as needed. Bar service by the pool was excellent as always, with everyone seeming to know what you want before you ask for it after you've been there for only an hour or two.

Activities Staff (Pool) – The Staff of Black Magic, Vanessa, Regina and Foxi are always smiling and enthusiastic. Black Magic is a take charge kind of guy who should be kept in a position where his energy and personality can spread to everyone. Vanessa is bubbly and easy to feel comfortable with...she seems to be in charge the minute she arrives on the scene. Regina is getting better with her English, but her smile and her personality are already 100% in any language. Foxi seems a bit new and hopefully will get more comfortable, but is a very nice guy and well suited for activities work.

Room – We stayed in a "Jacuzzi View" Suite , which was located just behind the beach bar - central to the entire resort. It may be a very personal preference, but after two trips and having Jacuzzis both times...I think it is unnecessary. Whenever we have the urge to be in a hot tub, we go to "the hot tub", and get social. Another point is that the hot tubs in the rooms don't look all that, um...fresh. The toilet is an odd shape that seems smaller than average, but no big issue. The water pressure was average, and the shower head was weak...I'd say maybe half of what would be acceptable. The sink area is ok, average size. As always at DRM...WATCH YOUR STEP. The floors are glazed and can be VERY slippery. Putting a towel down in the bathroom is a MUST. The bed was comfortable with plenty of cozy pillows. The couches were very good (not great), and the lighting was acceptable, but not really what you'd hope for. Closet and drawer space were adequate (again, nothing too spectacular). The fridge is a cube size...which is acceptable. In 10 days at DRM, we still have not turned on the TV. I don't even know if it works, and never plan to find out. If I want to watch TV, I'll go to Sandals. The door lock required the key to be inserted and re-inserted 5-6 times every entry, which was a BIG pain, especially in the rain. We didn't have a balcony, and our view was of the beach beds, behind which we could see a little ocean. No big deal.

Cleanliness – The resort was kept very, very well in all common areas. The only clutter was from construction, and it was contained very well. Each morning the entire property looked brand new again, and there were always staff members attending to trash and empty glasses, etc. The restaurants were immaculate, and the bar areas were always kept clean of empties.

Layout – Everything is close to everything. 3 minutes walk will basically take you across the entire resort, so room location shouldn't be a real consideration in your stay. DRM is a very cozy place (just over 100 rooms). The restaurants are grouped together, very easy to find, and after one day you'll feel like an expert. The only glitch was that Il Placaere was closed for renovaton, so the dinners there were moved to the poolside dining area...no big deal.

Noise – For as lively as things get, the resort is quite peaceful, and if you want a secluded place to be romantic, it was always available. The beach beds are a great place for private moments, and the rooms don't really expose you to loudness unless you are right next to the jacuzzi deck building.

Linens – Comfortable sheets and very nice pillows...lots of pillows.

Beach – Ocean views were beautiful. The (public) beach is medium sized, and there are clothed people walking back and forth from the neighboring resorts throughout the day and night. DRM security are ALWAYS there to make sure the neighbors keep walking (as opposed to the gawkers, of which there were a few), so that's not a problem. It would be nice to have a private beach, but in Mexico all beaches are public. The sand was fine and the water was warm enough for May. If you really want to be amorous on the beach beds, it is possible (take our word for it), but not necessarily approved of or easily navigated without raising the ire of security.

Black/Gold Bracelets – When you check in, you'll receive one to indicate you're a guest. PUT THE BRACELET AROUND YOUR ANKLE! Trust me on this one. It's scratchy and annoying otherwise.
Wi-Fi - Really only works in the lobby. SLOWWWWWW or non-existent everywhere else. They should really improve this.

Food - Very good selection, very good quality. Nowhere would I rate the food a 10, but never lower than a 7. The breakfast buffet is diverse and tasty. The afternoon pool food is probably the best variety and of very good quality. The Italian restaurant is Carrabas-level...pretty good, not great. The Japanese restaurant is tasty, but the selections were a little limited. Room service is not really worth much, since the selections are very limited. Make sure you repeat your order and any condiments a few times, just to be sure. Late night pizza by the lobby is as good as everyone says...A MUST. IMPORTANT! YOU MUST WEAR PANTS IN THE RESTAURANTS! NO SHORTS ALLOWED! Jeans are ok, but NO SHORTS.

Roof Hot Tub – Ok, now for the only parts people really care about. The hot tub is open pretty much all day, but only really gets a crowd of any size later in the afternoon when things at the pool die down, or late, late at night after the disco closes. This can also mean some very nice private time for couples either in the tub (which holds 40-45 comfortably, and 70 or so if you want to really meet people quickly . There is a bar up there, which is a little limited in selection and doesn't seem to attract the "A" team of bartenders, but it still works ok. There are 7 (maybe "beds" around the perimeter of the hot tub deck, and about 8 chaise lounges. YES, people will be romantic in front of you up there on those beds and chairs, and YES - you may see people having sex right next to you on them (with the occasional 4-way, etc.). YES, people are engaging in intercourse IN the hot tub and there is more than enough oral sex going on to satisfy any curiosity you might have. There are also people laughing, joking, having fun, meeting new friends, etc. It's not an orgy or a screwfest, per se - just a very casual and erotic atmosphere which really defines the entire DRM vibe/experience. The hot tub is awesome. If you head there the minute you arrive at DRM, you'll know exactly where you are, and what goes on. UPDATE : The three large "beds" which were on the roof are have had the legs, pillows, drapes and posts removed, and now sit on the floor to make things easier to convert for the foam party. They are really not usable for lounging and sex...too low. There are several figure 8 chairs which people did make use of for lounging, etc. - but the beds were better.

Disco - There was good energy to the music; they take requests, too. The mix was a bit too heavily tilted toward Latin music for the crowd, but people still danced. By the end of our trip, there was a bit more disco blended in (which was weird because a large Latin group of guests had just arrive) The bar is very well stocked and attended, and there's a pole for those inclined to be inclined. There are plenty of easily accessible bathrooms and the place is very, very clean. Behind the bar on the left side is the "play" room, or "sin" room. There are about 10 circular, vinyl covered "beds" for you to use in whatever way you and your partner(s) wish. Think live pornography, and you'll have a picture. Whatever you'd imagine in a Caligula-type setting, it's there. That being said, if you want to go in there with your partner for a 1-on-1 experience, that happens a lot, too. Nobody will bother you, and if someone does put a gentle hand on you (or your partner) and you don't want to play, just gently nudge it away. No harm, no foul. There are plenty of towels in the room for clean up, etc. You should use a couple of towels on your "bed", because the (understandably) plastic, sanitary coating on them is rough on the knees, etc.

Swinging / Mixing - My wife and I are not swingers, but like to be adventurous and see/try new things. We had all the same questions people look for answers to when they read these chats/forums. The answer is pretty simple : You'll get and do and experience as much or as little as you want. Nobody ever pressures anyone, and I never heard of it happening, either. We met close to 100 different people while we were are DRM, and got to know every manner of guest from completely couple-centric and romantic to hard core swingers that were looking for an orgy anywhere they could find it. Everyone in every group was completely welcoming and friendly, offering advice on restaurants, etc. all the time. It was enlightening and entertaining to hear about and see people whose "lifestyle" (pardon the pun) is different from your own. We hope we get to see many, many of them again. On the other hand, you should be very open and communicative with everyone you meet, and make sure people know what you intend or don't intend. There were also a few incidents of people being a little too touchy/feely without being asked - so you need to keep an eye out for a few groping fools that don't understand the concept that just because a woman is naked, she's not inviting you to sample her boobies as a "hello". Don't be afraid to tell someone to leave you alone. Many people want to define what you are (swinger/soft swapper/player/vanilla)...don't bother. Be and do who and what you both feel comfortable with and enjoy. Leave the labeling and judging to other folks.

Nudity - This is a nudist resort. You can go completely covered if you wish, but you'll probably feel a little out of place. Some women (naturally) wear bottoms for various reasons, but nobody ever questions anybody. On the other hand, most people are nude at the beach, pool and hot tub...clothed everywhere else. You can be scantily clothed, in wraps, sarongs, etc. - but 99% of people were clothed in all areas other than those. If you've never been to a nudist resort before, I'll tell you the standard line. Yes, there will be people there who like they were peeled from the pages of Playboy or GQ...which accounts for about 7% of the guests. The other 93% look like people you'd see at Target or a ball game...regular ol' folk without any clothes on. It's always nice to see people who are apprehensive at first becoming more acclimated and comfortable with nudity (their own and others), and seeing them have a much better time once the shed the layers.

Theme Nights - Women, dress to their best! Sexy outfits were abundant, creative, and VERY VERY hot! Men...did nothing. 99% just wore jeans/shorts and a shirt. Sort of lame, but nobody is looking at us, anyway . The lingerie show is fantastic and very erotic, as are the guests who dress up. Casino night is fun, and the auction is a BIG bunch of fun and laughs...also very erotic. Make sure you win as much as you can! The prizes are very cool. Foam party night is easily the most popular; just make sure you don't stand right under the foam machines (you'll be pounded and your eyes may burn in the bubbles. Bringing in a towel or washcloth is advisable (unless you wear goggles) to keep your eyes clear. Dancing, sliding around, and having fun in the foam is an awesome time for everyone. The floor IS SLIPPERY, so be careful. Wearing glow sticks on your wrists and neck is a good way to find each other. Also, your clothing will get soapy, so it's best to be naked or wear things you don't mind being stained. The foam party is a time that you MUST EXPERIENCE!

Overall - A rating of 8 this trip. There should be some attention paid to the food in the restaurants getting some new variety, and the room service menu needs a decent expansion. The activities staff are very good, but the DJ needs some more variety and attention to who the crowd is. The saying is that the people make the experience, which is true. You'll ALWAYS meet funny, interesting and friendly folks here - and that counts the most. We will definitely be back as soon as possible, and look forward to meeting new friends and seeing established ones. Remember to bring as many $5 bills (or singles, which take up much more room) as you can. Tipping is really the way to go to show your appreciation. When you're spending this much money, another couple of hundred $$ for great service should be the norm. The service was almost universally excellent.

SIDE NOTE(s) - We went to Pearl for dinner and a tour of the property and some rooms. I won't go into a long explanation, but it was the most beautiful resort I've ever seen, and the food was great. We'll definitely give it a try.

I'd be happy to answer any questions anyone has. Just message me or whatever people do on this forum (I'm not the most tech savvy guy).

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HBR - 8/11. 5/12
DRM - 5/13. 8/13. 6/14. 8/15. 8/16. 8/18
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby babygirl63 » Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:03 pm

That was a great helpful review. I am so excited to be going in december. Hoping the foam party is still happening in the cooler weather.
We hope to get to Pearl for a visit would love to see what it is like.
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby Gemini Rose » Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:10 pm

What a great report! Makes me look forward to our trip even more. We are going for five nights in October and are hoping to carry-on our luggage. What toiletries, if any, were supplied by the resort?
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby bigdaddy » Wed Aug 28, 2013 1:30 pm

The bathroom had some small bottles of what looked like mouthwash, shampoo, conditioner (?), etc. not very much - but we didn't look close enough or use any to remember for certain.
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby Gemini Rose » Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:11 pm

:L thanks!
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby Tiffany998 » Wed Aug 28, 2013 5:14 pm

Perfect trip report! Glad to hear your trip was amazing! Man, I miss that place! *sigh*
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby tan44 » Wed Aug 28, 2013 6:26 pm

Thank you for very informative trip report.
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby Yankeefan » Thu Aug 29, 2013 10:55 am

Great report. It was nice meeting you both during our stay and we agree with your assessment of the place. Our report follows.
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby keiwely » Thu Aug 29, 2013 1:08 pm

Great report and very informative. We are going for the first time next Feb. It can't come soon enough and thanks to reviews like yours, we should have a very good handle on what to expect. :D
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby bb25 » Fri Aug 30, 2013 8:24 pm

"Nudity - This is a nudist resort. You can go completely covered if you wish, but you'll probably feel a little out of place. Some women (naturally) wear bottoms for various reasons, but nobody ever questions anybody. On the other hand, most people are nude at the beach, pool and hot tub...clothed everywhere else. You can be scantily clothed, in wraps, sarongs, etc. - but 99% of people were clothed in all areas other than those."

This simply is not accurate. Maybe in your viewpoint, you would feel a little out of place walking to or from your room with nothing on. But it is not at all uncommon to see folks walking across the property or climbing the stairs to the hottub ...... totally in the buff. As long as you are not nekkid inside the lobby or eating areas you can stroll from place to place bare as you dare!! :D
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby JewelznDave » Fri Aug 30, 2013 9:27 pm

Thanks for the great trip report~ can't wait to go to RM in November AND Pearl in February!! 8)
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby bigdaddy » Tue Sep 03, 2013 8:02 am

I guess I didn't think it necessary to state this, but I will just in case anyone is confused...

EVERY statement contained in MY trip report is MY viewpoint. The only FACTS contained therein are the fact that the resort is named Desire, that it is in Mexico, and the names of the staff mentioned.

Having been to resorts that were strictly nudist (and advertised as such) - I know what the difference is and it's pretty obvious.

If anyone reading needs further clarification than my original report, just send a PM. Otherwise (as with every aspect of the DRM experience)...you're always better off deciding for yourself.

I offer my trip reports as a fun recap, not the law of the land and definitive statement on anything.

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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby Fantasiosos » Mon Oct 14, 2013 11:25 pm

Thanks for sharing your experience at Desire. We will be visiting Desire RM for the first time next weeks and this trip report has been very helpful.
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby azhotness » Sat Dec 07, 2013 9:15 pm

1st off thank you so much for your in depth review! It just make me sad to see this "Men...did nothing. 99% just wore jeans/shorts and a shirt. " as a female half of a swinging couple I see this all to much! Most guys think it doesn't matter what they look like, because its all about the ladies, but it is quite the opposite! The women expect to see well taken care of attractive men participating as well. I know you are not swingers. but that comment just stuck out to me lol!
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Re: Trip Report - August 20-25, 2013

Postby GregW » Mon Dec 16, 2013 12:54 pm

azhotness wrote:1st off thank you so much for your in depth review! It just make me sad to see this "Men...did nothing. 99% just wore jeans/shorts and a shirt. " as a female half of a swinging couple I see this all to much! Most guys think it doesn't matter what they look like, because its all about the ladies, but it is quite the opposite! The women expect to see well taken care of attractive men participating as well. I know you are not swingers. but that comment just stuck out to me lol!


I totally agree - what's up with the guys? Don't you want to show off a litle too? I keep myself is really good shape and my wife (for obvious reasons) really appreciates it. My goal is to be the best eye candy around her, and in a place like Desire I'm going to be sure to participate as much as the ladies.
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