Newbie report 26-29 June 2015 - What an adventure
Posted: Sun Jul 19, 2015 11:15 am
We planned our trip to Desire RM in February 2015 and we spoke about it for months. All of a sudden we were there, at Desire, then it was over. Our time came and went so quickly but we are planning trip no.2 for 2016.
This is a long but honest report, from two first timers, attending anything of this kind and I hope you enjoy reading it and that it helps other first timers who may feel the same way.
I will start at the beginning:
My man was celebrating his 60th Birthday and has always wanted to go to Mexico and do something different. We have been together for 14 years and we have a long distance relationship with a two hour flight between us. It is a honeymoon period whenever we meet and we keep our relationship fresh by finding ways to surprise each other. With this in mind, my man approached me with the idea of going to Mexico for 16 nights to a wonderful hotel in Playa Mujures but 'popping' out for 3 nights to stay at a resort called Desire RM. He emphasised the 'sexy fancy dress disco evenings' as he knows I love dressing up, so he had my full attention straight away. He then told me, over a glass of champagne, that Desire was a Clothing Optional resort but re-assured me it was totally up to me whether I wanted to take my bathing suit off or not. The idea of getting naked in front of other people filled me with dread. I searched the hotel website and realised there was more to Desire then just sexy disco and CO but I agreed to give it a go and the next thing I know, we were booking our 3 nights at Desire RM.
We found the Forum online and like all newbies, spent hours reading everything we could. The Forum is informative, especially the trip reports, newbie questions and general information but, at the same time, as our holiday drew near, I became nervous and apprehensive by some of the things I was reading. I am 53 years old and I do not have the slender figure of my youth with a perfect tight tummy. I read on the Forum about beautiful people and I imagined the pool area being something out of a Victoria Secrets catwalk. I had a major meltdown 2 weeks before we were due to fly to Mexico. My man was worried. He started to reconsider our trip to Desire. He was ready to cancel our 3 nights, even if it meant losing his money at such short notice. I persuaded him not to. I explained it was nerves and my disappointment for not losing as much weight as I wanted to before our trip.
So our holiday began in Playa Mujures before we packed a bag ready for our trip to Desire RM. We arranged a hotel to hotel transfer with Season Tours who offered an excellent professional service. We told hotel reception we would be away for 3 days visiting friends.
Our drive to Desire began and I did not tell my man I was shaking with nerves. We were too early to check-in to our room so we left our bags with reception and were shown around the resort by the concierge. She left us at the pool area with 'Danny' who quickly and efficiently found us two sun loungers. We were both already in our swimwear and I had relented that morning to put on a bikini and not my swimsuit. It was with trepidation I took my sun dress off but as I slowly started to relax and look around to take in my surroundings I was pleasantly surprised. I saw people of all shapes and sizes, some naked, some not. I saw groups drinking, talking and having fun. I saw couples laughing and relaxing together with their love and affection for each other so plain to see. It was a wonderful eye opener and nothing like what I had imagined. There were some very beautiful people with enviable figures but they in no way flaunted it or made you feel uncomfortable. I very quickly found myself smiling and enjoying being there to which my man let out a huge sigh of relief.
Within about 30 minutes of settling around the pool my man had his trunks off. I must admit I found this very exciting and found it very difficult not to reach over and touch what I always love touching but I restrained myself with difficulty. My man, on the other hand, had to wait a little longer before he could see me in the suit I was born with. I took my bikini top off later in the afternoon but it wasn't until day 2 that I had the courage to take my bottoms off. It is amazing the freedom you feel being naked in the pool or on your sun bed. Neither of us thought we would feel like that. We were surprised and excited by it.
After Foam Party fun in the pool, it was 3:00 pm and time for us to check-in to our room and get showered for our sensual massage which I had booked for the two of us before we arrived. Having read the Forum, I thought this would be a great way for us to experience, on our first day, what Desire had to offer. We had spent hours talking about it and my man had asked me to consider changing to the erotic massage instead. On arrival at the SPA I looked at my man and I knew I had to go for the erotic. If we only ever got to do this once, then let this be the one. I chose to have two girls as I was far too shy to have a man I don't know touching me but deep down I knew it was my curiosity to know what it felt like to have a woman touch you. I also knew this would drive my man wild.
We both felt a little nervous but the two girls were quick to settle us down on our individual beds and make us relax. The touching was slow and sensual. You can feel the excitement and anticipation building within your body. We both had our eyes covered but we could hear each other when we were touched in sensitive places and you can sense your partner’s sexual arousal which makes you hyper sensitive to where you are being touched. I found myself lost in the moment. When my man was brought over to join me, there were hands everywhere, on me, on him and when we finally got together it was an explosion of raw sexual wanting. When the girls left us, we lay there, in each other’s arms, exhilarated and exhausted. We went in the steam room afterwards, naked, covered in oil and sat there looking at each other with the biggest smile on our faces silently asking each other 'OMG did that really just happen?'
When we left the SPA we realised it was Jacuzzi time. We walked up the steps, a little apprehensive, as the time had come to finally see for ourselves what we had read so much about in the Forum. When we reached the top, I felt overwhelmed by the beds on the left hand side and I didn't want to look but I couldn't help myself. What I saw were couples being intimate with each other and I felt praise for them being so open about how they feel and I did not feel uncomfortable as I thought I would. The party from the pool had transferred to the Jacuzzi. We sat at the bar area and joined others having a drink. By day 2&3, with my man at my side giving me all the confidence and encouragement I needed, I got naked and we joined the party in the Jacuzzi. It was great fun. In an ordinary resort, you do not see so many couples, so in love, kissing, cuddling, and showing their feelings in the pool or the Jacuzzi. The sexual vibe with my man was heightened 10 fold and we didn't think we could feel any closer to each other than we already did. To be naked, to be in love, to be able to show it and to not be judged, is pure freedom and is what makes Desire so different from any other resort you will ever go to.
On our second day, we participated in a Tantric massage lesson in the disco area where they laid out mattresses for 20 couples. Firstly ladies massaged their men and then the men massaged their ladies. With oil, feathers, ice cubes and hot melted chocolate being used it was inevitable there would be happy endings for both parties. Brilliant and so unexpected. If you had asked me before the lesson, would I be happy to have sex with my partner in a public place with 19 other couples all in the same room, I would have said 'absolutely no way'. But at Desire, anything can happen and it did.
After our erotic massage on our first day and seeing how I had started to relax and enjoy myself, my man gave me a challenge. No sex in the bedroom. I thought getting naked was bad enough so I said 'I give in and lose the bet now' - but to my utter surprise, I didn't lose the bet. In 3 days we had sex in 3 different places, as well as the bedroom; (i) SPA erotic massage; (ii) Disco area Tantric massage lesson; (iii) At the Jacuzzi area. Unbelievably liberating for me to ignore my inhibitions and much to the pleasure and delight of my man, who couldn't believe the change in his lady who had had a meltdown days before flying to Mexico.
Our first impressions of the resort itself is that it looked a bit tired but the party atmosphere, the friendliness of guests and staff, the whole Desire vibe makes up for it and after a while you don't notice a thing.
We are not in the lifestyle and we met two other wonderful couples who were the same. All of us there to enjoy sexy time with our partners and enjoy the fun and atmosphere of Desire. We also met and chatted to some great couples who are in the Lifestyle but not once did we feel uncomfortable being with them. We respected their honesty. There is a great etiquette amongst Desire guests which is honourable.
The disco nights were just fabulous and such great fun. All those hours spent on planning outfits and to finally get to wear them and see what others are wearing too, what a sexy night. Dressed in a Basque, stockings and heels, on a summer holiday, my man was in his element. He thought his Christmas' had come at once. We enjoyed the disco shows with the naughty school girl show on Sunday night being the one that shocked me the most but which I thought was the best. Well done to the two performers who portrayed a hot sexy show.
Our evenings consisted of getting dressed for dinner, getting changed for disco and getting undressed for Jacuzzi time all in the space of about 5 hours. For a CO resort, we found ourselves catering for 3 different outfits for everyday (daytime cover for breakfast & lunch; dinner clothes and themed disco outfit). We laughed with our new friends at the fact we had one suitcase full of clothes for 3 days at Desire and one suitcase for 13 nights at our other hotel. It was crazy but such fun. I wouldn't change it for anything.
We ate mainly in the buffet restaurant where we found the food is good with lots of choice. We enjoyed trying all the different cocktails with our favourite being ScoobyDoo shots which the Jacuzzi barman made for us on our last night, my man's 60th birthday night and what a night it was. I gave my man a birthday present, at the Jacuzzi, which he is never going to forget. He still has a huge grin on his face every time he thinks about it.
I apologise for not knowing the names of the staff members who helped to make our time at Desire such a memorable one. The girls at the SPA for an unforgettable experience. Danny for his efficiency in organising the sun beds. The waiters who ran around making sure every guest was eating and drinking. The bar staff who tirelessly made an endless list of cocktails and drinks and who kept smiling the entire time. The Chefs who prepared such a wonderful variety of food and who made my man his birthday cake which we found in our room with a bottle of champagne. To the entertainment team who organised events and the Sunday afternoon DJ who played some great tunes. Our cleaning lady, who had a great sense of humour and left a huge dick made out of a towel on our bed. Thank you to them all.
But most of all a big thank you to our new found friends. We had a great time and so happy to have met you. You helped us settle in when we were uncertain of how things are done and you answered our many questions. We look forward to hopefully crossing paths with you at Desire again.
This is a long but honest report, from two first timers, attending anything of this kind and I hope you enjoy reading it and that it helps other first timers who may feel the same way.
I will start at the beginning:
My man was celebrating his 60th Birthday and has always wanted to go to Mexico and do something different. We have been together for 14 years and we have a long distance relationship with a two hour flight between us. It is a honeymoon period whenever we meet and we keep our relationship fresh by finding ways to surprise each other. With this in mind, my man approached me with the idea of going to Mexico for 16 nights to a wonderful hotel in Playa Mujures but 'popping' out for 3 nights to stay at a resort called Desire RM. He emphasised the 'sexy fancy dress disco evenings' as he knows I love dressing up, so he had my full attention straight away. He then told me, over a glass of champagne, that Desire was a Clothing Optional resort but re-assured me it was totally up to me whether I wanted to take my bathing suit off or not. The idea of getting naked in front of other people filled me with dread. I searched the hotel website and realised there was more to Desire then just sexy disco and CO but I agreed to give it a go and the next thing I know, we were booking our 3 nights at Desire RM.
We found the Forum online and like all newbies, spent hours reading everything we could. The Forum is informative, especially the trip reports, newbie questions and general information but, at the same time, as our holiday drew near, I became nervous and apprehensive by some of the things I was reading. I am 53 years old and I do not have the slender figure of my youth with a perfect tight tummy. I read on the Forum about beautiful people and I imagined the pool area being something out of a Victoria Secrets catwalk. I had a major meltdown 2 weeks before we were due to fly to Mexico. My man was worried. He started to reconsider our trip to Desire. He was ready to cancel our 3 nights, even if it meant losing his money at such short notice. I persuaded him not to. I explained it was nerves and my disappointment for not losing as much weight as I wanted to before our trip.
So our holiday began in Playa Mujures before we packed a bag ready for our trip to Desire RM. We arranged a hotel to hotel transfer with Season Tours who offered an excellent professional service. We told hotel reception we would be away for 3 days visiting friends.
Our drive to Desire began and I did not tell my man I was shaking with nerves. We were too early to check-in to our room so we left our bags with reception and were shown around the resort by the concierge. She left us at the pool area with 'Danny' who quickly and efficiently found us two sun loungers. We were both already in our swimwear and I had relented that morning to put on a bikini and not my swimsuit. It was with trepidation I took my sun dress off but as I slowly started to relax and look around to take in my surroundings I was pleasantly surprised. I saw people of all shapes and sizes, some naked, some not. I saw groups drinking, talking and having fun. I saw couples laughing and relaxing together with their love and affection for each other so plain to see. It was a wonderful eye opener and nothing like what I had imagined. There were some very beautiful people with enviable figures but they in no way flaunted it or made you feel uncomfortable. I very quickly found myself smiling and enjoying being there to which my man let out a huge sigh of relief.
Within about 30 minutes of settling around the pool my man had his trunks off. I must admit I found this very exciting and found it very difficult not to reach over and touch what I always love touching but I restrained myself with difficulty. My man, on the other hand, had to wait a little longer before he could see me in the suit I was born with. I took my bikini top off later in the afternoon but it wasn't until day 2 that I had the courage to take my bottoms off. It is amazing the freedom you feel being naked in the pool or on your sun bed. Neither of us thought we would feel like that. We were surprised and excited by it.
After Foam Party fun in the pool, it was 3:00 pm and time for us to check-in to our room and get showered for our sensual massage which I had booked for the two of us before we arrived. Having read the Forum, I thought this would be a great way for us to experience, on our first day, what Desire had to offer. We had spent hours talking about it and my man had asked me to consider changing to the erotic massage instead. On arrival at the SPA I looked at my man and I knew I had to go for the erotic. If we only ever got to do this once, then let this be the one. I chose to have two girls as I was far too shy to have a man I don't know touching me but deep down I knew it was my curiosity to know what it felt like to have a woman touch you. I also knew this would drive my man wild.
We both felt a little nervous but the two girls were quick to settle us down on our individual beds and make us relax. The touching was slow and sensual. You can feel the excitement and anticipation building within your body. We both had our eyes covered but we could hear each other when we were touched in sensitive places and you can sense your partner’s sexual arousal which makes you hyper sensitive to where you are being touched. I found myself lost in the moment. When my man was brought over to join me, there were hands everywhere, on me, on him and when we finally got together it was an explosion of raw sexual wanting. When the girls left us, we lay there, in each other’s arms, exhilarated and exhausted. We went in the steam room afterwards, naked, covered in oil and sat there looking at each other with the biggest smile on our faces silently asking each other 'OMG did that really just happen?'
When we left the SPA we realised it was Jacuzzi time. We walked up the steps, a little apprehensive, as the time had come to finally see for ourselves what we had read so much about in the Forum. When we reached the top, I felt overwhelmed by the beds on the left hand side and I didn't want to look but I couldn't help myself. What I saw were couples being intimate with each other and I felt praise for them being so open about how they feel and I did not feel uncomfortable as I thought I would. The party from the pool had transferred to the Jacuzzi. We sat at the bar area and joined others having a drink. By day 2&3, with my man at my side giving me all the confidence and encouragement I needed, I got naked and we joined the party in the Jacuzzi. It was great fun. In an ordinary resort, you do not see so many couples, so in love, kissing, cuddling, and showing their feelings in the pool or the Jacuzzi. The sexual vibe with my man was heightened 10 fold and we didn't think we could feel any closer to each other than we already did. To be naked, to be in love, to be able to show it and to not be judged, is pure freedom and is what makes Desire so different from any other resort you will ever go to.
On our second day, we participated in a Tantric massage lesson in the disco area where they laid out mattresses for 20 couples. Firstly ladies massaged their men and then the men massaged their ladies. With oil, feathers, ice cubes and hot melted chocolate being used it was inevitable there would be happy endings for both parties. Brilliant and so unexpected. If you had asked me before the lesson, would I be happy to have sex with my partner in a public place with 19 other couples all in the same room, I would have said 'absolutely no way'. But at Desire, anything can happen and it did.
After our erotic massage on our first day and seeing how I had started to relax and enjoy myself, my man gave me a challenge. No sex in the bedroom. I thought getting naked was bad enough so I said 'I give in and lose the bet now' - but to my utter surprise, I didn't lose the bet. In 3 days we had sex in 3 different places, as well as the bedroom; (i) SPA erotic massage; (ii) Disco area Tantric massage lesson; (iii) At the Jacuzzi area. Unbelievably liberating for me to ignore my inhibitions and much to the pleasure and delight of my man, who couldn't believe the change in his lady who had had a meltdown days before flying to Mexico.
Our first impressions of the resort itself is that it looked a bit tired but the party atmosphere, the friendliness of guests and staff, the whole Desire vibe makes up for it and after a while you don't notice a thing.
We are not in the lifestyle and we met two other wonderful couples who were the same. All of us there to enjoy sexy time with our partners and enjoy the fun and atmosphere of Desire. We also met and chatted to some great couples who are in the Lifestyle but not once did we feel uncomfortable being with them. We respected their honesty. There is a great etiquette amongst Desire guests which is honourable.
The disco nights were just fabulous and such great fun. All those hours spent on planning outfits and to finally get to wear them and see what others are wearing too, what a sexy night. Dressed in a Basque, stockings and heels, on a summer holiday, my man was in his element. He thought his Christmas' had come at once. We enjoyed the disco shows with the naughty school girl show on Sunday night being the one that shocked me the most but which I thought was the best. Well done to the two performers who portrayed a hot sexy show.
Our evenings consisted of getting dressed for dinner, getting changed for disco and getting undressed for Jacuzzi time all in the space of about 5 hours. For a CO resort, we found ourselves catering for 3 different outfits for everyday (daytime cover for breakfast & lunch; dinner clothes and themed disco outfit). We laughed with our new friends at the fact we had one suitcase full of clothes for 3 days at Desire and one suitcase for 13 nights at our other hotel. It was crazy but such fun. I wouldn't change it for anything.
We ate mainly in the buffet restaurant where we found the food is good with lots of choice. We enjoyed trying all the different cocktails with our favourite being ScoobyDoo shots which the Jacuzzi barman made for us on our last night, my man's 60th birthday night and what a night it was. I gave my man a birthday present, at the Jacuzzi, which he is never going to forget. He still has a huge grin on his face every time he thinks about it.
I apologise for not knowing the names of the staff members who helped to make our time at Desire such a memorable one. The girls at the SPA for an unforgettable experience. Danny for his efficiency in organising the sun beds. The waiters who ran around making sure every guest was eating and drinking. The bar staff who tirelessly made an endless list of cocktails and drinks and who kept smiling the entire time. The Chefs who prepared such a wonderful variety of food and who made my man his birthday cake which we found in our room with a bottle of champagne. To the entertainment team who organised events and the Sunday afternoon DJ who played some great tunes. Our cleaning lady, who had a great sense of humour and left a huge dick made out of a towel on our bed. Thank you to them all.
But most of all a big thank you to our new found friends. We had a great time and so happy to have met you. You helped us settle in when we were uncertain of how things are done and you answered our many questions. We look forward to hopefully crossing paths with you at Desire again.