Newbies- November 13-20, 2016 Trip Report

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Newbies- November 13-20, 2016 Trip Report

Postby mr&mrssnow » Fri Dec 02, 2016 12:00 am

We are a Canadian couple (ages 34 and 28) with no prior experience in the lifestyle who stayed at Desire November 13-20, 2016 for the FIRST time. This was our 11th trip to Mexico. We decided to try Desire to spice things up a bit!

Sunday: We arrived in Cancun at 530 pm and used USA Transfers to take us to the resort. We have used them five times and they have always been wonderful. The driver laughed when we told him where we were off to and promptly offered us Coronas for the drive that we gladly paid for. The drive to Desire from the airport was around 20 minutes.

When we got to Desire we were the only ones checking in. Our room was ready and Shorty gave us an overview of the resort, asked about preferences and allergies, and pushed us into setting a time to meet and speak about the membership program. The staff helped us with our bags to our oceanfront room (2504) and we started our vacation by watching multiple naked people enter and exit a room a few doors down followed by noises of pleasure. A man emerged from the room with the largest penis I have ever seen and I my wife laughed as I looked at my own, average, equipment. What was this place going to bring?

Because we arrived at suppertime Shorty advised us that we should probably stick with the buffet for supper, which was seafood. In retrospect, I’m not sure why this was suggested as we likely could have gotten a table at Suki later in the evening. My wife has a very bad allergy to seafood and Shorty called the buffet to ensure there were non-seafood options available. This was the beginning of a week of wonderful, above and beyond, service. We ate at the buffet later in the evening and it wasn’t great- I ate some of the seafood items and my wife ate steak, a roll and fruit.

After dinner, I hung out at the bar drinking and meeting people (very nice British people- hi M&D!) while my wife got ready in our room. We dressed up in Desire University attire and enjoyed the entertainment in the lobby bar area. The party was hosted outdoors at the bar and we didn’t make it up to the disco. Too many drinks later, we found ourselves dancing naked at the Jacuzzi having a blast. When the Jacuzzi wound down, we went to the lobby bar for pizza (I may have ordered four pizzas… ) and headed to bed.

Monday: We woke up around 10 am with headaches, pepperoni stained pillows, and wondered what the hell we were doing at a place like Desire. We ordered room service for breakfast (pastry, bacon, fruit- was decent) and put ourselves together enough to venture out to the pool. We got the last round beach chair available, I stripped nude and the wife to her bottoms, and we lounged in the sunshine until we couldn’t stand the heat anymore. We ventured into the pool, grabbed some drinks, watched the awesome games/activities, and stayed there until it was Jacuzzi time. We took it easy at the Jacuzzi that evening and used it as an opportunity to meet people, ask questions about the resort and activities, and relax. We ate at the buffet again for supper because we forgot to make reservations and didn’t yet know about Suki, and it was again just alright.

Monday was Desire Mansion themed. My wife wore a sequin black corset, sequin black underwear and a bunny tail and ears. I wore my usual dress pants and shirt. There was a live band that evening at the lobby bar so we danced the night away outside and missed the disco again. After dancing, we went back to our room and crashed because of our antics the night before.

Tuesday: Although we were meeting people and having fun, my wife was feeling pretty anxious about being at Desire. She is a friendly introvert and I think the out-there atmosphere at Desire mixed with no lifestyle experience and body hang-ups was overwhelming. It took a while to figure out where we fit in and who we were comfortable with. I think part of it was to do with our age but mostly it was being first-timers trying to navigate a pretty unique experience.

We made it to the breakfast buffet this morning after sleeping until 10. There was lots of selection and we felt like it was the best meal we had so far on the trip. Danny found us two beach chairs by the pool and we left our things on them and got in the pool. More drinking, more meeting people. Jacuzzi in the afternoon. Lots of people watching (our favorite). Sun. It was awesome. We blew off our meeting to discuss the membership program because we aren't interested at this time. Shorty left us alone after we firmly told him no.

Tuesday night was our first meal at Sahlo. We both enjoyed our meals and our waiter was awesome.

The theme night was Corsets and Gangsters. My wife wore her sequin corset again with ruffled burlesque-type underwear. I wore dress pants and a shirt. We finally made it to the disco for the burlesque show, which was cool to watch. We also made some friends who offered to give us newbies a no-sex, legit tour of the playroom (Thanks B&B!). The playroom was cool, pretty much what we expected from the descriptions on here. We went to the Jacuzzi after the disco and had some fun with our new friends. My wife and I had sex on the beds at the Jacuzzi and then went to bed.

Wednesday: I started getting up at 7am to go out and ask Danny to reserve a beach bed by the pool. I was not the only one out there doing this. We thought it was worth it to go as we had a comfy home base and place for our things, and I continued this throughout the week. We slept late and grabbed coffee at the lobby bar on the way to our beach bed. We ate lunch when the grill opened and headed to the pool after lunch. On Wednesday, we played pool volleyball and met a ton of people who we hung out with throughout the day and evening. The entertainment staff is awesome to play with and they kept the game fun and welcoming.

My wife’s anxiety was finally starting to subside. I think it’s like anything in life- participate in the things you like to do and you will find people you click with. For us, it was pool volleyball.

We think Wednesday afternoon is the day we saw a balcony demonstration that was pretty awesome. We ventured up to the Jacuzzi after the antics on the balcony were over and drank fireball with our new friends. There were people at the Jacuzzi using toys on one another, and lots of action was happening around us on the edge of the Jacuzzi and beds. We had a craving for 1921 after seeing another bottle being passed around and, when we asked the bartender about having some, we were able to purchase a bottle of our own for about $30 to share with our friends in the Jacuzzi.

We ate at Suki for supper with another couple. The food was delicious and there were good options for my wife despite her seafood allergy.

After supper we got dressed for the glow party. My wife wore a white silk tank top with bright orange underwear and I wore a white shirt with dress pants. We had drinks at the lobby bar and listened to the entertainment until it was time to head to the disco. We danced and danced and my wife surprised me by wanting to go to the playroom. There were open beds in the playroom when we went in so we had lots of space. Everyone was respectful and basically focused on their own activities in the room. We grabbed some towels, got down to business and after my wife had three orgasms and I finished, we left.

After the playroom, we went to the Jacuzzi. The resort emptied out quite a bit on Wednesday and the activity at the Jacuzzi was nil. We were tired from the day’s events and we left and went to bed.

Thursday: Much of the same happened on Thursday. Up late. Bed by the pool. Lunch. Went to the gift shop after deciding to try some Cialis. The Cialis made my cock harder than usual and added a little bit of length during the times I wasn’t hard. I didn’t expect to work like it did. Pool. Pool volleyball. Jacuzzi in the afternoon. Supper at Sahlo together- our waiter remembered our orders from the last time we ate there. We didn’t do costumes for sexy uniform night. We went to the disco, danced, got bored with the latin music and went to the Jacuzzi.

Friday: Friday was also pretty much the same. Except we played pool volleyball with the staff and watching Danny play volleyball was one of the best things we saw all week. We moved from pool volleyball to beach volleyball and had a blast. We drank with our friends and went up to the Jacuzzi. In the Jacuzzi we celebrated M&T’s last day at the resort and mourned the fact that they had to go next door to Breathless. We went for supper to Suki with friends (hi B&K!) and our meal was good again. There was a Latin band playing for Dress to Impress night which we were happy to miss as we are not Latin dancers (yet). There was a show at the disco after the band finished where dancers performed for the crowd. We danced some more and headed to the Jacuzzi. The Jacuzzi that night involved Irish Mint whipped cream on body parts and some hilarious times with really great people. We witnessed an Eiffel Tower demonstration. Then we finished the night off by having sex next to two other couples on the beach beds at the Jacuzzi.

Saturday: We slept late on Saturday, went to our beach bed, ate, and it started to rain. It rained long enough that we returned to our room and fell asleep. We slept until our 8 pm supper reservation at Sahlo, got up and went to eat, and returned to our room to pack our things and sleep some more.

Sunday: We got up at 0515 and headed to the airport with USA Transfers. We sat on the airplane and couldn’t believe the week we just had.

Our trip was awesome. My wife will go back and that’s an enormous win! Hands down, the best service and entertainment at any resort we have been to.
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Re: Newbies- November 13-20, 2016 Trip Report

Postby sonomapair » Fri Dec 02, 2016 12:24 am

Great factual report. (And I'm not criticizing that...as your reporting skills are valuable!). I honestly didn't know whether your overall take on the trip was highly positive or not until the last sentence, however. And your wife's perspective remains a more or less complete mystery. All good, we're going to find out for ourselves (tho at Pearl) during our first visit... in 10 days. :-)

Thanks for the report!
No longer Desire rookies! Second trip planned for 11/11/17 with Wegottathing and their podcaster and listener friends!!
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Re: Newbies- November 13-20, 2016 Trip Report

Postby SandM » Fri Dec 02, 2016 1:17 pm

Thats a baller move, spending a week at a place like Desire with no prior experience in the lifestyle. Nothing like jumping in with both feet. Well done! Great report. We arrive on the 18th and looking forward to it very much.

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Re: Newbies- November 13-20, 2016 Trip Report

Postby bk2 » Tue Feb 21, 2017 7:49 pm

F&M I can't believe we missed your trip report. We had a great time hanging out with you two. You really are under selling your naked dancing the first night. That two step was epic. Til next time. B&K.
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