1st timers Dec. 2016 - longest report ever! We'll be back!

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1st timers Dec. 2016 - longest report ever! We'll be back!

Postby TheMcQuaids » Thu Dec 15, 2016 5:08 pm

OK. We just got back came and went in one piece (mostly). I knew before we left I was going to write a trip report as I / we had some unanswered questions /uncertainty when we arrived and wanted to address a few things that are sometimes vague on here.

It is going to be long…..


A little background on us before the fun begins. Hubby (me) was tasked with our 10 year anniversary plans (in July)– for Dec vacation, my only requirement was NO children at the resort(s). OK great, obviously after some researching, I found Desire. I’m thinking sweet.. at the same time I am also thinking she’s going to say NOOOOOO way.

I was far more adventures than her previously; we have great sex (almost every day) but no S&M or the like, she hates porn etc etc. She has been fairly conservative being raised by a die-hard catholic mother etc etc.. She had NO swinger experience and when we have encountered things of that nature throughout our marriage (by accident).. she usually said something in the neighborhood of.. ewww. Anyway, I say hey look at this place!.. she had the look I thought she was going to have (not the happiest of faces).. Then she says.. BOOK IT!!. Of course, I am shocked..and booked a reservation.

A couple of days go by and I mention one night in bed.. Hey, we should probably talk as we are going to be in Mexico, “free” booze, naked people everywhere.. some shit is going to go down that we probably want to discuss. Really long story made just long, I thought it would be a good idea to see her reaction to the “lifestyle” before ruining our anniversary, wasting a bunch of money and having her pissed off at me for the next 10 years. I suggested that we attend a local swingers club, just to get a feel. So over the next few months ..We joined a website, went to the club, had a couple of meet and greets and had a couple of dinner dates- 2 or 3 of which resulted in girl / girl fun nights, some excellent conversations, one very minimal soft swapping and some great new friends -but she still didn’t consider herself a “swinger” by any means. I felt confident enough to keep the reservation ...and we would manage OK at Desire.. and in all likelihood never to return.

Day one: We left (6:00 A.M. flight) – standard travel not much to note. Left Kansas City, short layover in Dallas arrived in Cancun. Mexican customs was a breeze- hit the exit. Yes, there are plenty of people inside wanting this or that. We walked straight out the place and it wasn’t really all that bad. Hitting the sidewalk our contact was easy to find –(sign with our name on it), I pointed at him, he ran to me took our luggage and started escorting us down the sidewalk he and I handled the administrative stuff (vouchers, paperwork)..wife grabbed us a couple of drinks at the “beer hut”- and he took charge as the van pulled into position. EXCELLENT service from both men- we used Tourex? – booked directly from Right Travel. No. Issues. Whatsoever. (or complaints). Arrived at Desire a few minutes and two beers later.. They have respectable security procedures to gain access to the grounds. Entered the lobby and greeted by the usual hotel people all were top shelf and friendly. It was quick check in process, yes they mention the time-share thing I said no, ok fine! maybe later.. Its NOT a big deal. Changed clothes in a little room as our room was being prepared, bags delivered etc.. Headed to the pool.
Her top was on all of 5 minutes, I wore a sarong grabbed some drinks and waited for the foam- about 30 minutes. Sarong off, I don’t recall if she was totally naked at that point but probably likely. EVERY SINGLE PERSON THERE WAS AMAZING. EVERY SINGLE ONE, period. I didn’t feel uncomfortable, people looked like people. I am of average looks, average shape and I think average “size” – so is everyone else! We swam, hot tub at 4:00, nap, dinner, disco, hot tub, pizza, then bed. I had way too much to drink so details are hazy but we were tired and not much “excitement”

Day two-five: Same schedule eat, drink, swim, volleyball, hot tub, dinner, disco, hot tub, pizza sleep. At NO time was I (or her) uncomfortable.

Cliff notes on the fun! We both did nightly body shots on the bar – two of mine were EPIC- thank you “M’s wife” ….oooooooweee!!! I want to hear more about that Harley cruise if you see this. The covering me in ice from the staff during the one of the body shots and “maintaining” earned me some cool points from some of the guests ☺. The wife loved all of hers and loooooooooooooved watching / helping mine even more.

To the “excuse me, what time is it?” woman at the hot tub beds.. that my dear was some funny shit.. Well played. – a story that I am sure will be told for a long time..


The time spent with our new friends was amazing! – so much so that about day three(ish) wife says “I WANT to watch you with other women all the time” - her new thing I guess (in addition to her REALLY, REALLY, REALLY liking women). We had the best sex ever (together) many times in our room, hot tub and once in the playroom.

We came “swirly” - wife left a “lesbian” and me a “hot husband”- booking for next Oct or Nov. 2017 for trip number two. ☺

Summary: If you’re “new”, the point is, all of the reviews and posts on here and there are in fact 100% correct. No one cares how big, small, fat, skinny, endowed you are.. No one “looks”, laughs, frowns or cares. I quickly realized it TRULY is about just being a fun and social person. We made plenty of friends, had plenty of fun and did what WE wanted to do. NOT ONE time were we pressured, obligated or uncomfortable in ANY fashion-

This was the single most enjoyable vacation we have ever had. If you want to have a great time with your spouse go to Desire. We chose to have a few “experiences” and it was awesome -we could have just as easily had just a great time and not have those experiences.. Our list of friends wouldn’t have changed one bit – many of which we plan on visiting.

We had a garden view room. Better view of ocean than garden actually.. (#2415)..was quiet, a little small but served its purpose and zero complaints. Construction is going on - not an issue. Seriously its not. Food = good to excellent. (I gained 16 lb.) Booze, always flowing - Silvia works her ass off and brinks us drinks faster than I can drink them.. which is pretty damn impressive! All staff work really hard and really do provide top tier resort service.

My complaints: too much techno music at pool - yes thats my only complaint.

We loved it, period.

N&S
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Re: 1st timers Dec. 2016 - longest report ever! We'll be bac

Postby RogerKaren » Thu Dec 15, 2016 10:38 pm

That music drives me crazy too. It does not match the demographics of Desire. I think the Mexicans think Americans all like this junk.

Thanks for the report!!!!!
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Postby Explorer79 » Thu Dec 15, 2016 11:22 pm

I love reading reports like this, sounds like you truly embraced the environment and got the most out of it, awesome. :L The details are different but it really does remind me of our first trip in a lot of ways.
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Re: 1st timers Dec. 2016 - longest report ever! We'll be bac

Postby Lkncouple » Fri Dec 16, 2016 10:33 am

RogerKaren wrote:That music drives me crazy too. It does not match the demographics of Desire. I think the Mexicans think Americans all like this junk.

Thanks for the report!!!!!



Last time we were there, I went into the DJ's place and asked him to play some Kenny Chesney, Zac Brown and Jimmy Buffett and he had no problem putting it on. He invited me into the booth and had me pick out songs and queue them up. After he queued it up I gave him a tip for doing it, but he would have done it anyway. I think all you have to do is ask and they will put it on.
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Re: 1st timers Dec. 2016 - longest report ever! We'll be bac

Postby K&RinTX » Fri Dec 16, 2016 11:11 am

One time we went they had a large "white board" on an easel beside the DJ...people would just stop and write a few requests. I thought that was a great way to mix up the daily music and keep it fresh, but our next trip it was gone. I asked why, and Charlie said "some people were complaining about some of the music" :?
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Re: 1st timers Dec. 2016 - longest report ever! We'll be bac

Postby KettleTwo » Sat Dec 17, 2016 7:58 am

Going in January. We heard that there has been much Beach Erosion in the Riviera Maya. Any first hand reports on this from recent DRM visitors?
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Postby HorribleFrenchAccent » Tue Dec 27, 2016 8:45 am

Excellent trip report. We have just returned and will be posting ours soon.

It is most excellent to read about how this experience served to bring you closer as a couple. This was absolutely our experience on both a sexual and emotional level.

Yes - the beach has taken some wear and tear. We were in room 2215 - with a view of the water. They had beds down in front of the wall, but the water was regularly up under the gazebo. Luckily, there was still plenty of room for beach volley ball!
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