Dec 29,2016/Jan 3 - NYE, CiCi's Bar update & first soft swap

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Dec 29,2016/Jan 3 - NYE, CiCi's Bar update & first soft swap

Postby 2naked » Thu Jan 05, 2017 11:33 pm

It was a last minute decision to take this trip. Less than 60 hours prior to leaving we had no plans for New Years Eve. My wife texted me while I was at work on Tues 12/27 and said she found a flight for less than half what we normally pay for a trip to DRM over NYE. She checked the web sight and it was showing a garden room was available. She called to confirm and it was open so we booked it and the flight. 2 days later we were on our way.

Arrival:
I know it is silly to arrive late and pay for a room that late and this was the first time we've done that but going through the airport at night was so fast and easy, it made it almost worth it... almost. :-) We got checked in just in time to unpack a little and change for the disco. It was not packed by any means as many I think were coming in on Friday for the holiday weekend. We saw several familiar faces from past NYE visits and quickly fell into our normal routine... it was good to be "home."

CiCi's Bar update:
We were there for the grand re-opening of her beach bar. The security tower has been removed and what remains is the core of her previous bar with a new walkway built to surround it on all sides that connects to the steps that go from the beach to the rooms. There are no stools but plenty of room to stand/lean on the bar and mingle. The whole area is covered so you can hold up and drink during a short rain shower or get out of the sun if needed.

NYE party:
We have been to a few now and this one was pretty mediocre compared to years past. Just a DJ, a video screen, a tent covering the lobby in case of rain, a dance group that did a few numbers and a champagne toast at midnight. The theme was 007 which was nothing different than the normal "Millionaires" or "Playboys and Bunnies" theme night. There were many more men than normal wearing tuxes however, and they also had a few casino games going on prior to the dancers' performance. It was fine but nothing special like in years past.

General:
We met several new couples and caught up with many familiar faces. The weather was pretty good. Warm enough overall but one day was pretty overcast with a few showers. Not too windy either. Generally it was better and warmer than when we were there over Thanksgiving.

Our first soft-swap story:
We have been going to c/o places for almost 6 yrs now and have slowly evolved to be more comfortable with lifestyle activities but still progressing very slowly. We have been approached several times where play was a possibility but we always politely declined or explained we were not in the lifestyle. However, a few months ago, we decided to take the next step in our lifestyle journey and be open to soft-swap opportunities. On the last day of this trip my wife was taking a stroll along the beach while I was chatting with some friends in the pool and she was approached by a gentleman. He started chatting with her and she said it became evident pretty quickly that he was interested in her. Turns out they have been in the lifestyle for over 20 years and they had just arrived that day but had been to DRM several years earlier. His wife was not around at the time either but he said they would find us later so we all could all meet. I always enjoy when I get to observe that another man finds my wife appealing as I think most men in the lifestyle do but I didn't give much thought about this as I was sure that as soon as they saw me, there interest would fade. I don't consider myself ugly by any means but I am a big guy and I know that is a turnoff for many people. Later while at the pool, I was returning from the restroom and saw a couple chatting with my wife. Based on her earlier description of the gentleman, I new this must be them. They were extremely pleasant and we chatted for several minutes with no advances or overt flirting. I figured my prior assessment was correct and we had just met another couple that we could be friends with when our paths cross on future visits. We did discuss that if they pursued us further that we might be interested. Later that evening in the hot tub we were enjoying ourselves and our last evening by doing some intense fondling and deep kissing. Yes, on this night, we were "that couple" that seems oblivious to everyone else in the jacuzzi and we're going at it like the world was ending tomorrow. We eventually decided to end our night with a trip to one of the jacuzzi beds. I went to the restroom and as I came out, I saw a couple chatting with my wife and quickly realized it was them. As I approached, I heard my wife say something about soft-swap so it was pretty clear that an opportunity was arising... no pun intended. :-) After a short exchange to gauge everyone's level of interest, we were all "in." We informed them that this was our first time and they were OK with that. We opted not to play on a jacuzzi bed as they were all pretty soaked due to earlier showers so we decided to go back to their room. Once inside, we dropped our towels and headed toward each other's spouse. We each kissed a bit and then she spoke up and said we should probably know their rules. After a quick list from each of us stating what was and wasn't acceptable, we all headed toward the bed. We spent the next while engaging in lots of kissing and oral. My wife went down on another woman for the first time and I had two women suck me simultaneously as another first. Actually, pretty much every activity we engaged in was a first for us. We checked in with each other throughout the events and there were no unexpected emotions from each of us during or after. The other couple made everything very natural and comfortable for us. Even though afterwards when we discussed everything and discovered a few ways that we could improve, all-in-all it was about as good a first time as we could expect and most of that credit goes to them. I think we are going to be able to take the lifestyle in stride and use it to enhance our already great relationship. I look forward to future trips now that our options are now more plentiful than usual.
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Re: Dec 29,2016/Jan 3 - NYE, CiCi's Bar update & first soft

Postby Explorer79 » Fri Jan 06, 2017 12:02 am

:L :L :L Wooo hooo!!! Awesome :L :L :L :D :D
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Re: Dec 29,2016/Jan 3 - NYE, CiCi's Bar update & first soft

Postby desireaddict » Fri Jan 06, 2017 1:07 am

Explorer79 wrote::L :L :L Wooo hooo!!! Awesome :L :L :L :D :D

What he said!
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Re: Dec 29,2016/Jan 3 - NYE, CiCi's Bar update & first soft

Postby thetanman1957 » Fri Jan 06, 2017 11:59 am

Glad to hear you guys had a great experience.
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Re: Dec 29,2016/Jan 3 - NYE, CiCi's Bar update & first soft

Postby Mystra » Fri Jan 06, 2017 12:45 pm

Go at the speed you're comfortable with! Glad your first experience was good!
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