We are parents of two, mid / late 30s professionals who work hard and like to play hard. We have been at C/O area in Jamaica and have had group sex with very close friends. We enjoy frequenting the strip clubs when we have date night or with friends. However, we are not lifestylers, but have a wonderful sexual relationship & marriage! Both are like wine, just get better with age!! After our recent couples escapade, my wife loved her little naughty dark side and exhibitionism; which obviously I did too...so she was like lets work to get into shape and plan for Desire for our 10yr anniversary next year. I was like, REALLY? Then an opportunity opened up for us to go on a couples vacation this year and I suggested lets move the Desire Resort up to this summer. Now, she is more apprehensive, has anxiety about what to expect, that it is all a "sex fest" and self conscious about herself. Well, she is brunette 6'0", 140lbs with 36Ds and I love her beautiful self to death! I'm 6'4" 220lbs and while athletic certainly don't have the time to spend hours on hours at the gym daily.
I know we will have an unbelieveable time together, knowing our past experiences and our security with each other. I'm sure we will meet alot of great people too. I have some anxiety as well, but that is due to the uncertainty of experiencing something "new" that we haven't before. We've discussed the entertainment nights, looked at costumes, outfits and she is all about the body paint.
I suggested we post on this forum to gain some further perspectives and feedback. Our vacation schedule is June 30-July 7th; but have not booked yet.
Thanks!