All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

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All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby CokeMann » Tue Jun 09, 2009 1:25 pm

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Posted 09 Jun 2009

I got another question on Eyes Wide Shut and here is my report:

Happy to answer as completely as I can. We also had the same questions about Eyes Wide Shut (EWS) and when we asked others we seemed to get varied answers...I think that maybe they were still "tweaking" the event to make it ok for everyone. Later on I will provide a full report on the whole week but our brain cells are still not functioning at full capacity yet.

About Eyes Wide Shut Disco theme night:

First off, my wife and I thought it was a highly erotic and fun theme night. It really was a nice change of pace from the standard "dress down" theme nights....and it will be fun if you go in with the attitude to "go with the flow". We don't have any in-depth swing experience but we decided just to relax and have fun....come what may.

We bought along the "costumes" because we wanted to be involved because we heard that those that decide to participate in theme nights seemed to have more fun. I would have to agree with that assessment. What was a little surprising was I would guess that out of about 45 couples in the Disco that night...probably at least 30 dressed for theme night. The entertainment staff sets up a table at the lobby at about 10 or 10:30 PM with several dozen marti gra type masks and black cloaks. These are for those that did not bring theirs along. I was told that the resort was at about 60% capacity FYI.

Women wore masks and cloaks...many with a tiny "g" string or nude underneath...and that is it. Guys appeared to have on black boxers...although some were nude under the capes as well.

At about 11 PM or so the couples gather up in the Disco and dance or have a drink. Somewhere along 11:30 or so (it's east to lose track of time) the big TV screen by the bat starts to show the sex scenes from the EWS movie with Tom Cruise/Nicole Kidman. It wasn't creepy at all (at least to us). After a minute of so of the video the Entertainment Coordinator (EC) - who is also dressed in a long black robe and mask - stands in the center of the raised oval dance floor, microphone in hand. He asks that all the women make a large circle and surround the dance floor. Some couples choose not to participate and stood further back near the seating area. I would guess that around 25 or so couples choose to form the circle. Guys were directed to stand behind their ladies.

The music went down and the EC stayed in his center position on the Dance floor and he began to very slowly rotate in a circle observing all the women who were standing in a large circle about ten feet in front of him. Every few seconds he would slowly raise his cloaked hand and point at someone (a woman). That woman would come up to the dance floor (but not on on the floor). Women clearly had the option to participate as several declined when he pointed at them. My wife was one of the ones selected ("and my heart began racing" she said). After the EC had selected around 10 women he directed then to step up on the dance floor forming a circle - facing inward. He then asked the guys (husbands) to stand directly behind their ladies and reach up and around and remove the cloaks.

It really was a highly charged and erotic sight..even some couples who did not participate said as much later. 10 Women, most nude and some in the thinnest of "G" strings so small they might as well been nude.... and just wearing sexy masks. Husbands are standing directly behind their lady. The EC directed the guys to reach around and caress the ladies breasts and kiss the ladies up and down their back. He then had the ladies turn around to face the guys and he directed the couples to kiss passionately (their spouse). He then directed the guys to kiss "further down" and to "caress and kiss the nipples". You have to imagine the sight.

At this point (and it really goes fast)..the (the EC) asks all the couples to get on their knees (still facing each other) and the guys were directed to continue kissing "down" and "further". The ladies were directed to lay back and let their man "kiss that very special spot". So all the guys were giving the ladies oral sex for maybe 15 or 20 seconds...not long at all. He then asked every one to change positions and the guy laid back on the dance floor while the ladies gave blowjobs....again for maybe 15 or 20 seconds only.

At this point the EC announces that he "has something very special for us". The scene is 10 couples who were the "chosen" are sitting around the perimeter of the raised dance floor. All other couples who are still dressed in cloaks and masks are nearby and watching intently and silently. It was very easy to see that ALL the guys were excited...to say the least. Two very small, yet beautiful women from the resort...dressed in "G" strings make their way to the center of the dance floor (the EC is gone at this point). These two ladies do an incredibly erotic slow dance with each other. It was very hot. For a few minutes they are onstage dancing, hands and lips seem to be everywhere. There was NO overt sex going on between the dancers, but just a lot of slow hands moving up and down and body grinding and ass/breast rubbing/touching.

This went on for a few minutes and the ladies dancing on stage then slowly parted and walked in opposite directions to the edge of the stage where the couples were sitting. Each of the dancers picked a lady at the edge of the stage by just reaching out a hand to the lady. Once again this is totally optional as I think I saw two ladies declined by just nodding. They got two volunteer ladies up on stage and the two dancers each danced with the wives/girlfriends. It was, once again very erotic as all four bodies were slowly and seductively touching and fondling. I saw the two dancers then VERY gently guide the two volunteers to face each other and they (volunteers) began to dance and make out. The dancers gently guided the volunteers hands up and down the other woman's bodies and it wasn't long before the ladies were really getting into it.

Now the interesting part...at least for us. While the two ladies were dancing and making out on the dance floor the resort dancers then once again went to the perimeter of the stage and reached out their hands to two other women....one of which was my wife! They repeated the process by dancing with my wife and the other new woman. Now there were now six woman dancing very, very, very seductively on the dance floor. Keep in mind that nearly all are completely nude of very near it. The scene is dark and

The resort dancers brought the four dancing wives & girlfriends together in the center of the stage and once again they helped guide hands, asses, arms etc..so the all four women would closely interact. It was oh, so sensual. Then, kind of to my surprise but to everyone's applause and enjoyment...the resort dancers gently guided all four women down to lay on the dance floor. I did not even notice it but at that point the resort dancers left the dance floor. All that was left were the women on the dance floor making out. Again, it was not overtly sexual - unless you consider kissing, breast fondling and breast kissing and lots of ass touching overt. The scene was hot...unlike any theme night. This floor gyrations went on for just a few minutes and then it was over. The whole thing from start to finish maybe went 8 to 12 minutes - very fast. I think most people would have liked to see the ladies on the floor go at it a bit more but that was not to be....however, it seemed like a dozen of the couples skipped the remaining disco dancing and went directly to the Playroom behind the bar and went at it.
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Postby Omahacouple » Mon Jul 05, 2010 1:02 pm

Update June 2010:

I just wanted to update the EWS theme night. Nothing has changed as described in our June 2009 report above EXCEPT...the ladies are up on the stage and their guys are standing off stage facing them. The ladies then ROTATE around the stage facing another man...where they kiss and do a little touching. The ladies rotate around until they have "met" each man. In our case there were eight couples participating in EWS.

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Postby RobSueLuvinLif » Tue Jul 20, 2010 11:08 am

Desire offers up masks and cloaks for those that want to participate. We didn't want to use them as who knows if they have ever been sterilized. At least you get to see the bowling alley attendant spray disinfect the shoes when your done so you have at least some confidence the shoes you are wearing are somewhat clean. BUT a mask on your face that maybe 100 others have worn previously.....That's about equivalent of swinging bare back with those you have just met.

Worse yet, the EWS event itself is not very erotic.

L and S, that may have been us talking and laughing. We were cracking up at the poor guy whose wife/SO would not preform oral on him. He kept trying, but she kept pushing it away. If this were billed as a porn flick, it would have been redubbed a comedy. Personally speaking anyway, it was much more funny, than erotic. But, to each their own ios always important.
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby COCONKITTY » Tue Oct 01, 2013 4:53 am

SOUNDS VERY INTERESTING....
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby misbehaving2 » Tue Jan 07, 2014 10:36 pm

What night is the EWS theme night?
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby EmptyNesters » Wed Jan 08, 2014 8:33 am

EWS is not on the current schedule.
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby mfay » Wed Jan 08, 2014 10:45 am

EmptyNesters wrote:EWS is not on the current schedule.


Not on the regular weekly schedule, but it is scheduled for every Monday night in January as part of the special International Swingers Month program .
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby COCONKITTY » Wed Jan 08, 2014 11:49 pm

was not on the December schedule at either resort...though we had planned for it.... :(
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby mrstommer » Sat Jan 11, 2014 8:01 pm

Thank you for the detailed report on the Eyes Wide Shut event at the disco. It made me feel comfortable in thinking that is something me and my husband could attend and participate in. I wonder if Pearl will have that as part of the theme night schedule for June. :D
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby COCONKITTY » Sat Jan 11, 2014 8:53 pm

yeah we also brought things for the studio 54 party...but wasn't on the schedule... We had lingerie night- leather and lace night-Naughty School girl...these theme were fun and well attended in theme i think there was a White night i do believe.......... a few nights the theme was so(unconventional) so to speak...most people just came dressed nice and it was not big deal...Most just made the best out of it.. :wink: :wink: :wink: :L
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby misbehaving2 » Wed Jan 15, 2014 10:18 am

I got some feedback from a couple that just returned from Desire. Eyes Wide Shut is on the January schedule. They said it was very fun for the couples that dressed the part. So please remember to bring your own cloaks and masks, because they don't provide them for you.
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby Yeipi » Wed Jan 15, 2014 10:22 am

Just a heads up: we are currently at Desire RM and went to see the Eyes Wide Shot on Monday night.

Big disappointment!!! Nothing close to what has been described before.
After 10 minutes of watching a bunch of people touching and kissing what was around them, we decided to leave.

Probably some people will enjoy the new version but IMHO, it is not as erotic as the EWS versions I've read about in the past.

Very disappointed! :?
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby mrstommer » Fri Feb 14, 2014 10:12 pm

I would think it depends on the crowd…the theme itself sounds like fun. Too bad your crowd didn't quite get into the notion of having harmless fun. Thanks for sharing!
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby Klj2323 » Thu Mar 27, 2014 12:37 pm

Sounds awesome, I have already purchased my mask & am looking for a cloak! Can't wait to experience that!
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Re: All about the Eyes Wide Shut Theme Night

Postby CokeMann » Thu Mar 27, 2014 1:28 pm

Klj2323 wrote:Sounds awesome, I have already purchased my mask & am looking for a cloak! Can't wait to experience that!

FYI - EWS is no longer part of the new themes for DRM - it was only part of ISM in January

All the current themes for DRM are listed HERE
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