mikecohike wrote:We will be newbies at Desire Pearl Feb 2022. We are very excited about this new adventure. We are both newly divorced and want to remain monogamous and explore our sexualities with one another. Pearl seems like the perfect place to do this.
1) many photos show men in long sleeve shirts (dinner/night club) and women in sexy clothing. Are the restaurants/nightclubs air conditioned? Is the temperature comfortable enough in sexy skimpy clothing?
2) Are there areas/times we should be aware of to limit ourselves to certain areas to avoid the suggestion we are interested in LS? We don't care being around others who enjoy LS and understand we may be asked, but just trying to steer clear of an area where if you’re there it means you're looking to share with others.
3) For the outdoor beach/pool beds do you reserve them? Is there a protocol we need to know about? This is a sexual fantasy we are really looking forward to.
4) I'm not able to find the menus on line and wondering if there are gluten free options. Are dinner reservations difficult to get for Pearl and Suki?
While we have not been to Pearl, we have been to RM a number of times and we are heading back the first week of February. So I will give your questions a shot.
1. Yes the restaurants and night clubs are air conditioned. So if it is hot you will be comfortable. Long sleeves are not required, but long pants are a required for men in all of the restaurants except for the Buffet's. The average high temp is 79 and the low is 73 for Cancun. I have been looking at the forecast down there now, and it is highs in the 80's and lows in the 60's right now.
2. We are not in the LS and have been 5 times. You can go anywhere. You can go to the hot tub, playroom, hot tub beds etc. People will ask you and you can simply say that you are not in the lifestyle and they will continue to be extremely friendly, but they will know you are not up for play. I would say it is extremely interesting to talk to everyone and hear how they got into the lifestyle or ask them questions about it.
3. The pool and beach beds can be reserved with the pool attendant. The members that purchase into their program get first shot. If you get up early and tip the pool attendant he will get you a bed if any are available. Not sure about pearl, but I don't think they allow sex on the pool beds or the beach beds during the day. You can have sex on the beds around the jacuzzi. At RM we have gone out to the beds at night and had sex with no issues.
4. I think they will accommodate any allergy or gluten requests. Once again the people that purchase into the program get first dibs on reservations. We have never had a problem. We can only make reservations the same day, so you just need to be there, when they open up the reservations. I have no idea why they never post the menus. This trip, I am planning on taking some pictures of the menus and posting them here, so people can see them. I am not sure how often they change them.