Quick question for the ladies

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Quick question for the ladies

Postby Luckman » Sun May 18, 2025 8:52 pm

As we prepare for our trip next week, I was wondering if someone wanted to praise your breasts in a respectful manner would you prefer:

You have beautiful breasts.
or
You have beautiful boobs.
or
You have beautiful tits.

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Re: Quick question for the ladies

Postby Aachenandjessicat » Mon May 19, 2025 1:59 pm

This is an excellent question. I however fear that this will be on a case-by-case basis, and some women will not want you to complement them in this way until they get to know you.
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Re: Quick question for the ladies

Postby travmex » Tue May 20, 2025 2:39 am

I don’t think that many women will welcome comments about their body parts in casual conversation with a virtual stranger - even at Desire. And their partners may take an even dimmer view.
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Re: Quick question for the ladies

Postby Yeipi » Tue May 20, 2025 9:13 am

d) None of the above :mrgreen:

In our previous trips, a couple of guys have said to my wife things like"You are beautiful " or "I find you very attractive" and she took those comments in a nice way. But if someone out of the blue mentions anything specific about her breasts or boobs, I'm sure she will find those words creepy
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Re: Quick question for the ladies

Postby San_Dav » Fri May 23, 2025 10:44 pm

I think there is a bias here where if the male half said this it, may come off as creepy being that specific and he should stick with "beautiful" in general. Where as if the female half said beautiful breasts, tits, boobs, etc it would be fine. Still depends on the situation, but there is probably more latitude for the ladies to get specific in the compliments and the guys stay generic until more rapport has been established.
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Re: Quick question for the ladies

Postby Phit&Phabcouple » Fri May 30, 2025 6:22 pm

I am going to give you an amazing piece of advice, take it for what it is worth, if it is valuable to you, great, if not that is okay as well. Most women do not want to be complimented on things for which they have little to do with the end result. For example, "Nice Boobs" (Tits, breasts, ta-ta's, whatever) is not that great of a compliment because unless enhanced, genetics decided this for her. A MUCH better bang for your buck is, wow, "I love your hair!" If a woman has nice hair, she has spent hours THAT DAY doing it. Compliment somemthing she had to work for. If she is jacked, complimenting her leanness, shoulders, arms, etc is 1000% better than "Nice tits."
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Re: Quick question for the ladies

Postby Cheers2US » Sat May 31, 2025 6:44 pm

I think most, if not all, of the replies so far have been from guys.

I'm the Mrs here and I agree with what many men have said: a man making a remark on a specific body part of a woman would come off as creepy, especially if the 2 are strangers. It would be better to compliment her general beauty, outfit, hair, jewelry or tattoo. I feel that since breasts/boobs/tits are a sexualized part of the body, any "compliment" comes off more as weird.

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