All-in or take it slow?

[pennylovers]

My trip is coming in. First time for the wife and I. Should we exit the room with clothes and slowly start shedding them, or all-in? Nervous if we have clothes we may back out of it. Any advice?

[buried20kleague]

My trip is coming in. First time for the wife and I. Should we exit the room with clothes and slowly start shedding them, or all-in? Nervous if we have clothes we may back out of it. Any advice?

Most people (not ALL, but MOST) walk to and from their rooms with something on. I'm not saying you SHOULD do that... More pointing out that if you do have clothes on at that point, you really won't feel out of place.

I would suggest setting up near the pool, then lose the threads. That's what most do. If your wife would be more comfortable with stages (topless at first, totally nude later), that's perfectly in line with others as well. In fact, a decent amount of women always keep bottoms on.

We went with the band-aid method once we got to the beach the first time. After 5 minutes it was no big deal. It was still sexy and fun... But it wasn't something we felt self-conscious about. When I would go to the bar or restroom, sometimes I would slip my shorts on... Sometimes not.

The big thing I want to point out is that you're probably spending WAYYYY too much time and energy worrying about it. We were the same way. MONTHS of discussion, playing out scenarios in our heads, worrying... After 5 minutes around the pool we both were laughing at how big we had built it up in our heads compared to what it is in reality.

[bobsharon79]

Hey buried20kleague!!!Take them under your wing and show them how its done !!!!!! Enjoy

[MarNRob]

Wear clothes (swimsuits) to the pool or beach then lose them. You will want clothes for lunch at the poolside restaurant which requires tops and bottoms not to mention shoes. Otherwise it means a trip back to the room. Trust me (us) when you are surrounded by naked people you will not have a problem joining them.

Best,
MarNRob

[STL-MO-CPL]

Depending on which room you get, you won't have much distance to cover between your door and the pool or hot tub. We had a room in the 30s building and basically turned left and were facing the cubby holes in the hot tub area. I think we had to walk farther to get from the hot tub to the restrooms than we did from the hot tub back to our room. The resort isn't very big, so it's not like you're going to be walking for a long distance. Don't know if that helps make up your mind, but it's something to consider.

[Kelly&Eugene]

The easiest option (in my opinion)is to wear a sarong to the pool. Once at the pool all you have to do is untie one simple knot and get in the pool and enjoy the amazing freedom that is Nakedness!!

[Twohere4some]

Agree that the majority of those we have seen ware something to get to and from and quickly loose once at their destination. For us, even though we love seeing each other naked, there is an extra erotic pleasure watching your SO disrobe in your (and others) presence.

[ksr]

On our first visit to Pearl I started off wearing shorts and she started with a bikini. We walked all around the property that way for several hours. We just weren’t ready to get naked. We settled in at the quiet end of the pool and I lost the shorts. Later, she took off here top. It was fun and exciting. We went back to the room, I put on a bracelet and attached our room key to the bracelet and that is how I left the room for the rest of our trip (except for eating and disco). Great fun. After 4 trips she continues to wear bottoms 90% of the time. Do whatever you want—no one cares.

[normancouple]

sarong's are the way to go!

[2McD]

On our first trip, It was an itsy bikini with sarong or sheer/mesh cover up for me. I felt the need to wear something at first, then got more comfortable after day 1. Still wore a cover up for lunch at least But it's all about your comfort level.

[waab76]

Sarongs all around!

Of course, she can get away with nothing but a sarong and I need a shirt to go with mine if we're going to be dining indoors. But there's nothing better than being one knot away from naked.

Hrm... "One knot away" sounds a little kinky. I like it

[max4play]

Start in clothes if it makes you feel more comfortable - Desire resorts are all about doing whatever you want, when you want, how you want - some people stay clothed the whole time, others walk around naked whenever they can - personally, we walk to the pool in "suits" - here is where you can get them - recommended:

For her;
http://wickedweasel.com/en-us/shop/biki ... 457-00-312
http://www.nvrstrings.com/vahana_cheeky_thong.html

For him;
http://www.escollectionusa.com/online_s ... vy-09.html
or
http://gregghomme.com/Swimwear/123225-p ... g-swimwear

of course, you'll only be able to wear them a few places!

Have fun!