Hi Frosty,
I’m pretty new to this forum but I’ve read quite a few posts, including yours. I just briefly want to give my 2 cents, from a gal’s point of view not to this particular post actually, but in general to all your questions here and about this unique place called Desire. For sure, it’s always good to ask questions before you experience something new (lol, I wish I knew about this forum before I first came to the resort!) but gosh, why not just go there and experience something you’ve never experienced before and don’t spoil your surprise by knowing too much in advance, making up all sorts of scenarios or listening to other’s point of views (including mine, LOL!). Just jump right in and see for yourself. It’s a great safe environment, and if you try to let go of your insecurities and inhibitions or whatever, trust me, you will get so much more out of it!
Like others already mentioned on this forum, everyone’s experience is different and Desire is what you make it. Everybody is looking for something different. Try not to go there with high expectations or feeling pressured to do something you don’t want to do. You don’t have to get engaged in games you don’t like, you don’t even have to talk to any people if you don’t feel like it. You don’t have to do anything! Just enjoy your vacation…and let everything come naturally. If you want to impress your SO, I’m sure you won’t run out of options, haha! This place is really special and really sexually inspiring…and I’m sure you already figured that out, but only from what others replied to you. Desire people are very friendly, respectful, genuine and open minded. So..IMO, it’s the best place to experience something new and maybe reignite your passion if that’s what you’re looking for.
Another thing that’’s worth mentioning: you might already know about them, but I would strongly recommend Lauren’s and Richard’s workshops - especially if you are a newbie. They are so awesome, and no matter how much you’ve already experienced in the past, I think there is always something new to learn, spice things up a little, become closer to your partner and become comfortable with other naked sexy people, who well…might engage in some sexual stuff
But the most amazing thing (for me at least ) during these workshops is to feel that contagious, powerful sexual energy all around, immerse in it, and also see how much other couples enjoy their partners and how comfortable they feel even in the presence of so many naked strangers. It really is an incredible, unique feeling.
Just go for it, live it, experience something new, rediscover yourself and don’t worry about anything in the world, you’ll have enough time for worries. For me, it’s worth going there only to feel that same thrill that I was feeling when I was in my early 20-es and going on a new date. On the other hand..of course it’s easy to go overboard sometimes, with all the drinks, the sun, the fun and all the sexy stuff happening around you, LOL. But that’s how you find out who you really are, how far you are willing to go, who your partner is and maybe what you want from life.
Wow, I didn’t want to write such a loooong message! Hopefully I didn’t bore you, and hopefully I didn’t sound like some sort of counselor
So long story short, I think you can get so much out of it if you just relax and be yourself. It really could be a life changing experience (it was for me) that you might never regret or forget. For me..well for about one month after my last 12 day trip there I’ve felt like I was on steroids or something like that