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I'm very courious what the ladies think. I have heard it gets pretty crazy around the pool and beach. Like ladies giving BJs , handies, in the open. Never been around that sort of thing. Love being nude, just not sure how to react to wild stuff in the open. Do the guys all walk around nude?, Do you get comfortable with this after a few drinks. Just Wana have a good time and get a little wild myself. Nude volleyball sounds like a blast, what sort of fun activities happen. Thanks girls.

Spend some time reading past posts about these subjects. Only you can really figure out how wild it is based on your own definitions.

Yes sex can happen on the beds by the beach even though this is only officially condoned around the jacuzzi or the private playroom. One of the coolest things my wife and I experienced happened late one afternoon . We were naked reading on our bed by the beach around 5 or so. An attractive couple removed their clothes and parked right next to us. They proceeded to have oral sex, missionary sex, and finally ended with the best blow job I have ever seen. This was within handshake distance of my wife. We fondled a bit while watching. Hard and wet. Almost joined them. But left it for the room afterwards. A very cool memory.

Is it just me, or do the OP's posts seem kind of trolly? Every one I read seems to be trying to tease out some juicy info on the resort and just reads kinda "off" to me. Maybe I'm wrong and I apologize if I am, but it comes off as a teenager trying to get find out information. Just weird to me. Check out the OP's other posts. <shrug>

Have thought the exact some thing with every post i see of theirs.
Sounds like a single guy wound up tight. Not the typical questions all the average couples seem to pose. Who knows, been wrong before and sure will be wrong again but your post was funny in that we have discussed a few of theirs and said the exact same thing.

Cheers,

Sorry I haven't responded back.
I'm new to this and didn't realize I was asking to many questions. I'm not a teenager and definitely not a single man. I'm a Very happily mairred women who is very courious and nervous about our up coming trip to the Pearl. We have never done this type of thing and have decided to take the plunge and be daring.

Again sorry, just new. I will do better.

Miss Frosty

Nearly everyone is nude around the pool and hot tub, and to a lesser degree at the beach. People need to be clothed in the restaurants. People are also generally clothed in other public areas, such as the lobby and disco. You will find people enjoying themselves with their partners and others in the beds around the hot tub. It is a little unnerving at first, but, for us, it quickly became perfectly natural and we found it to be liberating to literally do whatever we desired in those areas. If it turns out that such a scene is too much for you and you are simply into nudism avoid the hot tub. In fact, in our experience, most couples are nudists and not into the lifestyle. Moreover, the resort has no resemblance to a porn shoot (if that is your concern). Instead, it is a place where adults can be adults and engage in adult activities or not, and be completely free of judgment. To us, that is what makes Desire so special. We were not into the lifestyle before our first trip to Desire Pearl and our experience literally liberated us to explore.

Thanks for the info, that makes me feel better. Just nervous about what to expect.

jandr2u wrote:Is it just me, or do the OP's posts seem kind of trolly? Every one I read seems to be trying to tease out some juicy info on the resort and just reads kinda "off" to me. Maybe I'm wrong and I apologize if I am, but it comes off as a teenager trying to get find out information. Just weird to me. Check out the OP's other posts. <shrug>

Hey Frosty..read the trip reports... they are great for newbies to get a"feel" for Pearl. The place is amazing. I'll bet my paycheck you'll come back again!

Thanks, I will start doing that.

Hi Frosty,

I’m pretty new to this forum but I’ve read quite a few posts, including yours. I just briefly want to give my 2 cents, from a gal’s point of view not to this particular post actually, but in general to all your questions here and about this unique place called Desire. For sure, it’s always good to ask questions before you experience something new (lol, I wish I knew about this forum before I first came to the resort!) but gosh, why not just go there and experience something you’ve never experienced before and don’t spoil your surprise by knowing too much in advance, making up all sorts of scenarios or listening to other’s point of views (including mine, LOL!). Just jump right in and see for yourself. It’s a great safe environment, and if you try to let go of your insecurities and inhibitions or whatever, trust me, you will get so much more out of it!

Like others already mentioned on this forum, everyone’s experience is different and Desire is what you make it. Everybody is looking for something different. Try not to go there with high expectations or feeling pressured to do something you don’t want to do. You don’t have to get engaged in games you don’t like, you don’t even have to talk to any people if you don’t feel like it. You don’t have to do anything! Just enjoy your vacation…and let everything come naturally. If you want to impress your SO, I’m sure you won’t run out of options, haha! This place is really special and really sexually inspiring…and I’m sure you already figured that out, but only from what others replied to you. Desire people are very friendly, respectful, genuine and open minded. So..IMO, it’s the best place to experience something new and maybe reignite your passion if that’s what you’re looking for.

Another thing that’’s worth mentioning: you might already know about them, but I would strongly recommend Lauren’s and Richard’s workshops - especially if you are a newbie. They are so awesome, and no matter how much you’ve already experienced in the past, I think there is always something new to learn, spice things up a little, become closer to your partner and become comfortable with other naked sexy people, who well…might engage in some sexual stuff But the most amazing thing (for me at least ) during these workshops is to feel that contagious, powerful sexual energy all around, immerse in it, and also see how much other couples enjoy their partners and how comfortable they feel even in the presence of so many naked strangers. It really is an incredible, unique feeling.

Just go for it, live it, experience something new, rediscover yourself and don’t worry about anything in the world, you’ll have enough time for worries. For me, it’s worth going there only to feel that same thrill that I was feeling when I was in my early 20-es and going on a new date. On the other hand..of course it’s easy to go overboard sometimes, with all the drinks, the sun, the fun and all the sexy stuff happening around you, LOL. But that’s how you find out who you really are, how far you are willing to go, who your partner is and maybe what you want from life.

Wow, I didn’t want to write such a loooong message! Hopefully I didn’t bore you, and hopefully I didn’t sound like some sort of counselor So long story short, I think you can get so much out of it if you just relax and be yourself. It really could be a life changing experience (it was for me) that you might never regret or forget. For me..well for about one month after my last 12 day trip there I’ve felt like I was on steroids or something like that

An AWESOME response and even better suggestion!

You hit the nail right on the head - and drove it all the way. Thank you for your write-up!