Twopeas wrote:One of the attractions of Pearl for us was that one of us could be in a suit while the other wasn’t. It all goes along with the non-judgmental thing that is so important to us. I saw a couple of men and women suited or half suited during our stay in the hot tub and pool. it did not bother me that some men were clothed and I was not. All good. We met and talked to many great couples in the tub and they did not mind that we are a “mixed nudity” couple. I actually find it creates very erotic situations and pictures, to each their own right? We were very happy we were not shunned or excluded as we are not vanilla in many other ways and loved the erotic nature of the resort. For us, It made the experience more about eroticism and love and less about orgies and forced lifestyle choices which is why we went.
I'm glad you had a great first timer experience! Yes, that's exactly what Desire is about, you got it all right. And every time you go there you will experience different crowds, different situations, different experiences. It's always random, always different, sometimes is more fun, sometimes is slower but most people are there to reconnect, relax and have a good time.