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Hubby and I are only spending 3 nights/4 days at Pearl - Sat, June 5 through Tuesday, June 9. Considering the length of our stay, what are some of the “musts” we need to do/see/try?

Activities? (Erotic massage? Foam party? Photo shoot? off site excursions? classes? Time share speech? Hah!)

Foods/drinks?



Anything else? Thanks!

Arrive early if you can for the Saturday foam party. Day one go easy on drinks and have lots of water as you’ll arrive dehydrated just from flying.

Daytime pool and beach activities are a great way to meet people by joining in. Hot tub before dinner for sure each night.
You’ve got a short trip so perhaps skip leaving the resort this trip. If you do plan an excursion plan for Monday after the full house weekenders have started to leave.

Try all the included non-motorized water activities. Enjoy late afternoon / early evening nap before dinner and plan at least one night staying up to 3am at the hot tub / swim up bar after the entertainment and dancing.

Do the photoshoot and buy a couple of the sexy pics. Request champagne and chocolate dipped strawberries to your room one night before dinner. Indulge in the extraordinary !

That’s a good start.

Thanks VanillaX - do you know how late the foam party goes until? We don’t land until 2. . Love the rest of your suggestions, didn’t even think about water activities!

The champagne and chocolate dipped strawberries you will get if you take the erotic massage so if that's one of the things you are thinking to experience, just do it!

The foam party @ RM is from 3 - 4 PM on Friday but check the schedule to make sure it didn't change - it's on the Desire website.

In our opinion, you MUST go without an agenda (especially for your first time). Get a feeling for the cadence of the resort. The best moments at Desire tend to be spontaneous. Three nights will disappear in the blink of an eye. You'll be yearning to come back the second you get home.

#1. Extend your trip! You're going to be just getting settled in and it will be time to leave!
#2. Make it a point to smile and say hi to everyone you can... you'll make a lot of fast, lifetime friends!

Hi - if you are landing at 2pm, you will probably miss the foam party. We were at Pearl last weekend and the foam party ran from 2-3pm. It usually takes us about 60-90 minutes to get cleared through immigration, get our bags and take the short drive to the resort. Maybe trip number 2!?

We would also recommend the photo shoot. It is fun to participate in the theme night attire as well.

For sure do one or both of the Lauren and Richard workshops, they are amazing. Also early in our December trip we dined early and then headed to the Jacuzzi around 8:00 PM. There was a full moon and we had the tub to ourselves , music and our private bartender. While we enjoy a crowd, those were magical moments!

Smiley0707 wrote:Hubby and I are only spending 3 nights/4 days at Pearl - Sat, June 5 through Tuesday, June 9. Considering the length of our stay, what are some of the “musts” we need to do/see/try?

Activities? (Erotic massage? Foam party? Photo shoot? off site excursions? classes? Time share speech? Hah!)

Foods/drinks?



Anything else? Thanks!

You don't have time for off site excursions. Pick any of the other two you list (not including the membership speech which can be short and take some $ of your massage cost). More than that and you may feel a little rushed. After all the fun is in slowing down, meeting people, enjoying the atmosphere, etc..(slowing down doesn't mean don't party hard, it means don't be held to a schedule).

First, I will just say enjoy your trip. Yes, 3 nights will go very quickly. But, it is also enough to get a really good feel for the resort.

As others have said, I would not plan a thing in that amount of time. Just being at the resort and getting in the vibe of it will be all you need.

Get ready to have a blast and enjoy your trip. You will be planning your next one before you leave.

Sex at night, under the stars, on the beach beds is the greatest thing in the world. Just remember to grab some towels first. Magic.

Our 2nd trip was 3 nights, and while of course it was too short, we knew the number of days going in, it was 6 weeks after our first trip so we still had "Desire brain going", we had a fantastic crowd there, the weather cooperated and we went full throttle from start to finish (since endurance wasn't going to be a problem). So all in all, that 3 day trip packed more action in than some of the 5-6 day trips. It's definitely possible to have a fantastic short trip even though more is easier/better and gives more margin for error.

A lot of great “musts” are listed above. I want to add: Ceviche poolside/beachside for lunch, body shots in the jacuzzi, dancing on the dance floor late into the night

Smiley0707 wrote:Hubby and I are only spending 3 nights/4 days at Pearl - Sat, June 5 through Tuesday, June 9. Considering the length of our stay, what are some of the “musts” we need to do/see/try?

This is our 4th trip coming up in July and we have yet to make our arrangements coincide with the Foam Party. We've missed it every single time just due to our travel limitations. Some day, we're going to make it work on a Saturday to be at Pearl!!!

Let me enthusiastically support the photo shoot. We had Jahel and she was absolutely amazing in every way. She has a magical ability to make a woman feel at ease. I know my wife was nervous, but we had seen so many incredible examples of other shots from a pre-trip chat group on social media. We were convinced that we should try it. Let me tell you, it was worth every single penny. My wife looked amazing in her pics and we love to share them with other like-minded friends who had the same experience. Do it! You can't go wrong.

Second the Richard and Lauren workshops. Other than that, plan to give yourself unscheduled time. Enjoy!