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We are planning outfits for all theme nights. What is the norm for the level of exposure on theme night???
Correct me if I'm wrong, but what I read it can be any level of risque. What is the usual level of sexiness? Since we are new to this whole concept, just want to make sure we aren't the only ones feeling "exposed!"
I'm 39 She 41.

M&C

everyone will be different. Some wives/GF's wear completely meshed outfits. ( Think of the outfits that look like chain link fencing trying to keep out mosquitos from a pool area. )

There were other things like this:


University night saw a lot of this (underwear was optional and non-existent)


Neon night was hot..


Its about what your bride wants to do as well. someone had something similar to this on Latin Night.



Hope that helps. One woman came to the Friday night party with a bustier with no cups on it. So straight up braless and almost really topless. But we've been naked all day so no one bats an eye. ONce inside the disco a lot of women were doffing their tops as it was hot anyway.

Awesome post and great commentary.
Many Thanks

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This is the most risque outfit my wife ever worn at Desire's disco, although during the day she always go 100% nude.
She felt completely comfortable with her clothing.

It is odd. Nude all day long, but very few people get nude in the disco. A lot of flashing and occasional topless if enough people join in. Outfits are generally very sexy. You can do whatever you want. No one cares and the men enjoy more exposure not less.

What about the guys? I've heard of the Ladies, but are there many guys that participate? I feel if my wife is going to get wild, I would need to join her. Considering wearing things I would never think of elsewhere. Or is it mostly the Ladies showing off?

New to this...just trying to "get a feel for it"

M&C

SM4Fun wrote:What about the guys? I've heard of the Ladies, but are there many guys that participate? I feel if my wife is going to get wild, I would need to join her. Considering wearing things I would never think of elsewhere. Or is it mostly the Ladies showing off?

New to this...just trying to "get a feel for it"

M&C

I'd say 30-40% of the guys participate.

The guys that dress up are the ones that get all the attention and are having the most fun.

And I ABSOLUTELY agree that if she's going to get into it, I should be too. A lot of times I go as much for "funny" as "revealing", and it's usually a big hit.

Like last year, for movie couple night, she was a skimpy Jessica Rabbit and I was Roger Rabbit. Even sat in with the band and played drums in my full Roger attire.

The year before that for Nautical night... She did Ariel (from the little mermaid) and I did Sebastian the crab.

SM4Fun wrote:What about the guys? I've heard of the Ladies, but are there many guys that participate? I feel if my wife is going to get wild, I would need to join her. Considering wearing things I would never think of elsewhere. Or is it mostly the Ladies showing off?

New to this...just trying to "get a feel for it"

M&C

We both dress for every theme night. We spend weeks putting outfits together in prep for the trip. I'd say 50% of guys dress for theme and 70% (maybe more) of the ladies dress. First trip we really did not participate much and really regretted it. Now we dress like we could not dress anywhere else. Disney for adults!

Making a test for the picture of my wife wearing the most risque outfit for a disco night.

If that is the norm, then we are good to go!

Nice Lady by the way! The only thing that would make here look better is if she was with my wife

Theme nights are definitely bare as you dare! I agree with the other comments, guys should get into the action too. Making an effort really pays off.

STL-MO-CPL wrote:Theme nights are definitely bare as you dare! I agree with the other comments, guys should get into the action too. Making an effort really pays off.

On our last trip, wife suggested that I wear a white buttoned down shirt over my fishnet thong. I grudgingly obliged

wbski85 wrote:On our last trip, wife suggested that I wear a white buttoned down shirt over my fishnet thong. I grudgingly obliged

I bet that generated an enormous amount of attention. Must have been a killer ice breaker!

SM4Fun wrote:What about the guys? I've heard of the Ladies, but are there many guys that participate? I feel if my wife is going to get wild, I would need to join her. Considering wearing things I would never think of elsewhere. Or is it mostly the Ladies showing off?

New to this...just trying to "get a feel for it"

M&C

as said before only 25-40% of men dress in theme... i have dressed up every time and received more attention (in a good way) then i expected... for BDSM night 2 years ago i wore a see through mesh/leather shorts with a see through black shirt and black combat boots, i had so many complements from the ladies and a few men saying they whis they had the guts to wear what i had on... just have fun wear what you want and enjoy!!!

Very good comments on Theme nights. They are a blast if you participate. Women as the focus and men are the “props”. There is no such thing as “too risqué”. The sexier the better for women. The options for men are limited anyway, so just be imaginative and have fun with wearing something you could never wear anywhere else. I wore just a gladiator kilt for leather and lace night. Went over great. Again, I was just a prop for my extremely sexy wife who wore see through lingerie and heels and danced the night away in the disco. It gets hot in there so less is definitely better.

Have a great time!!

Stephen and Mary