Jpbtnt98 wrote:Hi - my wife an I are looking to book a trip in October. We have never done anything like this before but are excited about the idea of exploring and pushing our limits. Any suggestions out there that might help put our mind at ease. We have been married for 23 years and are in our mid 40s. We aren’t sure how wild we would get on this trip but we are looking for advice on what to expect or possibly even do while there.
My husband and I are in our mid-40s - our frist trip was not to Pearl but to a smaller resort in Europe (Spice in Lanzarote - sadly closed now), without having ever gone to any clubs or anything like that.
We were overwhelmed by the sexy atmosphere and the biggest surprise was how normal it all seemed, just a day or two into our stay. The naked people, the PDA/PDS (which is much more "out there" in Europe) .. the first trip we just enjoyed the sexy atmosphere - had A LOT of sex just between the 2 of us and I had one sexy experience with another woman. But as you will learn if you read the trip reports in here, meeting the people - the open, sweet and friendly people. I was very scared before going, because I had this idea that the lifestyle people would be scary and aggressive. Nothing could be further from the truth. I always say "if only all men were as well behaved as the men you meet in the Lifestyle, it would be so much more safe and nice to be a woman"
This was in 2013 and we never looked back. Our first trip to Pearl was for my 40th birthday in 2015 and we have been back to Pearl 6 times, we have been to Spice 3 times, HEDO once and different places in Spain - and still the people are the very best part of the Lifestyle. We have made so many friends - not only Lifestyle friends, but also people with whom we just share a vanilla friendships.
2020 has been awful - we have not gone on any trips to Lifestyle places, and we miss it badly. We are booked for Pearl in November and we really hope it is going to happen.
At Pearl we especially enjoy the theme nights and the disco - and of course Jacuzzi-time
AND the beautiful hotel with the best, most friendly staff we have ever met.
If you have questions you are welcome to PM us.
Mr and Mrs. DK.