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My apologies if this has been asked already.

Having never been there, just how much public sex (of any type) is allowed. I can tell that in the sin room anything goes.

It appears that anything goes in the hot tub too, but it’s not clear to me.

Does anything else happen in public? Can you let me know what’s tolerated in different areas?

Thanks so much. We’re planning on going in March.

Just got back from our first trip to Pearl - first lifestyle, first clothing optional, first anything for my wife and I. So VERY green!

We loved it - low pressure and people being respectful and no pressure. We did peak in the sin room a few times and definitely a ton of action going on in there - anything goes. Also at the hot tub beds like you said. During our week there we did see a woman blowing a guy on the steps between the pool and hot tub when we walked to dinner our first night of arrival - that definitely shocked my wife as we had been onsite just a few hours and everything was new. We did see a guy get chocolate sauce poured on his cock and his wife blow him at the pool during the foam party - then he returned the favor to her. Honestly though no one was paying it a ton of attention - we looked, were initially shocked and then laughed and then went back to having our own fun. Not that big of a deal. We also saw a 69 on the couch at the casino night party - again not a big deal - heard people cheering - looked, shocked, laughed and went back to playing black jack. There was also a foursome over in the corner of the quiet side of the pool that got a little frisky one day with some oral. Again - when there it really wasn't a big deal - weird as in the vanilla world police would be called!

Being a non-swap couple that likes to have some sexy fun together we weren't offended by any of it and found the limited stuff that we saw entertaining. We are booking our second trip back for 2022!

Awesome that you're visiting the resort for the first time!

This has been asked and answered extensively on this site, use the search function top right. So, in short, here's the official reply from the Desire website - "Having sex is permitted only in the Jacuzzi Lounge, but it is strictly prohibited in the public areas." There are beds along the hot tub area where you'll see it during the late afternoon and late evenings. Otherwise, it is technically not allowed anywhere else on the property except as you noted the sin room in the night club/disco!

The rules are a bit relaxed during the month of January during International Swingers Month (ISM). Lite PDA is allowed all year, just be discreet and respect others.